"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is a very cool site. You all have your act together. I'm just wondering, where are the women (besides the special womens segment)? I mean if you are serious about meeting, dating and attracting just women, you could do so right here with the help of women. All you would have to do would be to include women in your discussion. I have learned so many great things by reading the ideas on this site. Yet I also laugh because being a woman that you guys just don't get (in terms of knowledge by being guys after all), especially when you try to make such DJ typical comments about women, you don't have any women to correct you when you go a wee bit off target *smile*. I don't know, I guess I am just in the men's locker-room about women. And if you give me the fit-it-into-your-personality line, well, I am a human being first just like all the rest of you and well it makes a difference if people are treated in terms of only their sexual preferences and gender or whether we can all have a look at your ideas and genuinely feel appreciated and included instead of just a don juan species of male sexually ravenous homo sapiens constantly recovering from chumpdom.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i didnt understand any of that.....

just joking :p
 

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Hi

Hi DJsparky, Do you mind if I ask you a few questions? What are the three most important things you want to learn about with these topics? What issues, questions and landmines do you have?
 

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Mainly im here to improve myself and to help others, being a don juan is to be at one with yourself, kind of like finding an inner peace. Sure it's great to get advice along the way and the dj bible comes in handy, but thats only half the battle, you need to get out there and do things yourself, to become one with yourself is to try and give it your best shot.
 
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