"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Meeting again after approach

shouldbefun

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So quick question, my game kind of becomes weak the next time I see a girl and I have no idea what to say, and somehow my momentum to tease/talk about fun stuff just fizzles out. Its like theres no clue what i should do. I talk about general stuff what i am upto, theres no chemistry nd it feels lousy. Those are the girls that I approached earlier but got a number but didnt set a date/set a date but met them earlier and girls that I want to game for the thrills that showed low interest.

So when you do see a girl you talked earlier/bump into her, what do you do/talk about? Provided its not a set up meeting, just an accidental bump/meet in a local area. Any references, field reports I could read about would be great.

I also noticed that some girls tend to look at me after I have been rejected by them. What should I do? Approach them again or let them pass.

Thanks!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bullbearpig

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Sounds like you're in your head too much. Need some context of what youre talking about though. When you say you see the girl again are you talking about a date or you approached a girl in a grocery store and you see her again while shopping or what? As far as a girl looking at you after you've been rejected by her, Do not approach her again. If you make eye contact with her just smile and go about your business as if her rejection means nothing to you.
 

shouldbefun

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Yeah, you meet them and you get a number/set a date in text and during those 3-4 days you see her again. Especially in uni environments, you tend to bump into each other.
 
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