"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Meeting a chick from one of those adult sites

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sharpshooter

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adult friend finder to be exact. She's basically hinted to me that she pretty much wants sex and NOT a relationship, which is cool with me :)

Problem is, should I approach this type of situation differently. I mean, we both know what we want. I'm thinking of just planning it out with her where we should do our business etc and just do it that way. Since I know her intentions, wouldn't that make sense? Instead of the usual hang out or date and let it come. Obviously we'll talk for a bit in person before hand, maybe at a mall or the back seat of my car haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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squirrels

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Adult Friend Finder, eh? Yeah, I see those ads all the time when I'm jacking it to hardcore gangbang porn. :rolleyes:

Dude, shut off the computer for a few minutes and go outside.
 
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Originally posted by squirrels
Dude, shut off the computer for a few minutes and go outside.
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Originally posted by squirrels, Vincent, Ziroh
Dude, shut off the computer for a few minutes and go outside.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My 2c...

Dude... do what squirrels, Vincent, Ziroh, and SamePendo said:D
 
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Dont do it

You are liable to meet a psycho or get an STD

And if you are lucky you might get both...
 
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