"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Meeting a chick from one of those adult sites

sharpshooter

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adult friend finder to be exact. She's basically hinted to me that she pretty much wants sex and NOT a relationship, which is cool with me :)

Problem is, should I approach this type of situation differently. I mean, we both know what we want. I'm thinking of just planning it out with her where we should do our business etc and just do it that way. Since I know her intentions, wouldn't that make sense? Instead of the usual hang out or date and let it come. Obviously we'll talk for a bit in person before hand, maybe at a mall or the back seat of my car haha.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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squirrels

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Adult Friend Finder, eh? Yeah, I see those ads all the time when I'm jacking it to hardcore gangbang porn. :rolleyes:

Dude, shut off the computer for a few minutes and go outside.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by squirrels
Dude, shut off the computer for a few minutes and go outside.
 

SamePendo

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Originally posted by squirrels, Vincent, Ziroh
Dude, shut off the computer for a few minutes and go outside.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Climax

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My 2c...

Dude... do what squirrels, Vincent, Ziroh, and SamePendo said:D
 

Ricky

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Dont do it

You are liable to meet a psycho or get an STD

And if you are lucky you might get both...
 
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