"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Meeting a Chick First Time....

HollowHorizon

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Alright, Ive Scanned Through the bible although id like a like to hear diff point of views...Ok anyway im going to a show with this girl who i never met in my life(meeting her there) I talked to her on the phone a few times and im getting good vibes..Now i need a little refreshment on how i should act aside from being myself because im always that...im just asking how do you act to someone new.. I dont wanna throw to many curve balls.... i also wanna have fun and hopfully she will to...Its a Life Of Agony Show If Anyone is firmillar with that gere of music....id say she is a hb 7 or 8...I wanna make a good first impression and mabe even a memorable one...

Thanks Dj's
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SurfsupinHawaii

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just play it cool man, dont overanalyze it.. good thing is its a movie date so thats 2 hours where you dont have to talk much and can just enjoy the movie. also gives you somthing to talk about after the movie.

I would say just let her do most of the talking and you just listen and like I said be cool and chill..

Good Luck man
 
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