"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Meeting a Chick First Time....

HollowHorizon

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Alright, Ive Scanned Through the bible although id like a like to hear diff point of views...Ok anyway im going to a show with this girl who i never met in my life(meeting her there) I talked to her on the phone a few times and im getting good vibes..Now i need a little refreshment on how i should act aside from being myself because im always that...im just asking how do you act to someone new.. I dont wanna throw to many curve balls.... i also wanna have fun and hopfully she will to...Its a Life Of Agony Show If Anyone is firmillar with that gere of music....id say she is a hb 7 or 8...I wanna make a good first impression and mabe even a memorable one...

Thanks Dj's
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SurfsupinHawaii

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just play it cool man, dont overanalyze it.. good thing is its a movie date so thats 2 hours where you dont have to talk much and can just enjoy the movie. also gives you somthing to talk about after the movie.

I would say just let her do most of the talking and you just listen and like I said be cool and chill..

Good Luck man
 
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