"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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meet up advice pls

dustmuffin

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I'm going to a meet up Friday. Its at a bar with a band. Anway circus monkey will probably be there. I am waiting for her to initiate.

Question is if i am not contacted how do i act if i see her friday? Hello and wave? Let her come to me? Ignore? Dance with try to take her home? Work on new girls? So many options. Opinions pls.......

Edit....there will be 25 single women and about 15 guys at this event.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do that.
 
AttackFormation

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25 single women and 15 men? What kind of event are you going to, a re-enactment of post-war society?
 
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Be just about friendly and act as aloof as you can while keeping her interest.
 
dustmuffin

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Nope meet up....that is the number that rsvped.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks guys...my boy wants to stay weekend so I won't be going out. Will be doing stuff with him.
 
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