"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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meet up advice pls

dustmuffin

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I'm going to a meet up Friday. Its at a bar with a band. Anway circus monkey will probably be there. I am waiting for her to initiate.

Question is if i am not contacted how do i act if i see her friday? Hello and wave? Let her come to me? Ignore? Dance with try to take her home? Work on new girls? So many options. Opinions pls.......

Edit....there will be 25 single women and about 15 guys at this event.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do that.
 

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25 single women and 15 men? What kind of event are you going to, a re-enactment of post-war society?
 

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Be just about friendly and act as aloof as you can while keeping her interest.
 

dustmuffin

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Nope meet up....that is the number that rsvped.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dustmuffin

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Thanks guys...my boy wants to stay weekend so I won't be going out. Will be doing stuff with him.
 
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