Since passive is a Alpha trait. Who wanna come with me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_76Aiq-Nvqs
You just have to pay for me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_76Aiq-Nvqs
You just have to pay for me
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Meditation
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VladPatton
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You'd have to pay me to do that shıt.
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Passive is an alpha trait? Is this a joke?
I thought aggression was a masculine trait.
Or am I being trolled?
By the way I meditate in the sauna for 10 minutes after I work out. I also meditate at night for 23 mins.
I thought aggression was a masculine trait.
Or am I being trolled?
By the way I meditate in the sauna for 10 minutes after I work out. I also meditate at night for 23 mins.
VladPatton
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LMAO
Shut your mouth, little girl. You know nothing. Stuff your bra, change your tampon, and go get some dıck. :crackup:
Shut your mouth, little girl. You know nothing. Stuff your bra, change your tampon, and go get some dıck. :crackup:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I'm 23 years old so I go in accordance to the amount of minutes based on my age.VladPatton said:
There are great benefits to meditation....i meditate with qigong usually daily for half an hour and then meditate in my bed each night for about 30-40 mins before i sleep...the benefits are endless mentally, spiritually and physically......you don't need to go to some resort to learn....for basic meditation each night just lay on your back in your bed and focus only on your breathing and nothing else...basic meditation is keeping your mind strictly on one thing or nothing at a time for extended periods of time and when you get good at it you will find it quite pleasurable.....most people don't realize just how clouded their mind's are and how much it bogs them down each day...
for something more advanced, find a qigong teacher...the qigong that i learned is very powerful...it completely alters the way i feel each day and only takes half an hour to do each day......any more than that literally feels too strong for me...
for something more advanced, find a qigong teacher...the qigong that i learned is very powerful...it completely alters the way i feel each day and only takes half an hour to do each day......any more than that literally feels too strong for me...
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There is an Indian proverb that says that everyone is a house with four rooms, a physical, a mental, an emotional, and a spiritual . Most of us tend to live in one room most of the time but unless we go into every room every day, even if only to keep it aired, we are not a complete person.zinc4 said:
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Do not meditate, fapping is better. 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nah fb sucks, because there is too many acquaintance. Here I don't need to hear that 'attention *****' thingy as many times as there.
And let me add a little bit: What is wrong with attention *****. As I see it, you are also being a attention *****! otherwise you would just ignore me.. Now then again, I enjoy this, and if you call discussing things here a attention horing - where its supposed to be discussed, then Im glad I am a attention *****. There must be something wrong with you! There must.. because in a place where you are supposed to discuss things, why be quiet? Why not talk. And in a place where you are allowed to talk and seek attention of people, now will you do the opposite? - not seeking attention. This is just stupid.
Adam: yes I have spent few days now doing meditation and it does wonders. Before trying I was like no way..
TheFap Princess. Yes For little piece of sluts. Just kidding :rock:
Zing: This Qiqong sounds interesting. I will try it when I get deeper into this basic meditation!
And let me add a little bit: What is wrong with attention *****. As I see it, you are also being a attention *****! otherwise you would just ignore me.. Now then again, I enjoy this, and if you call discussing things here a attention horing - where its supposed to be discussed, then Im glad I am a attention *****. There must be something wrong with you! There must.. because in a place where you are supposed to discuss things, why be quiet? Why not talk. And in a place where you are allowed to talk and seek attention of people, now will you do the opposite? - not seeking attention. This is just stupid.
Adam: yes I have spent few days now doing meditation and it does wonders. Before trying I was like no way..
TheFap Princess. Yes For little piece of sluts. Just kidding :rock:
Zing: This Qiqong sounds interesting. I will try it when I get deeper into this basic meditation!
Interesting. Now I think that is only a symbol. For example, if we don't know how to relax, our action will be a kind of disturbance. So life should be all dimensional. The vaster, the more complete life is.SeymourCake said:
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Olivia said:
You should read the book "As a Man Thinketh" by James Allen. He was a 1800s British philosopher that goes in detail about how our thoughts shape our lives. If you want to to listen to the audio book, check it out on YouTube for free. Here's the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYaY6BFvGeA
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Olivia said:
Oi... I'd call it "assertive".
Aggressive without making an ass of yourself.
It's more masculine than anything. You can remain cool and push forward without having to seem like you're trying too hard (because you're not).
My favorite assertiveness technique is to do the "+-+" thing.
If you need to tell someone something, or you want to complain about something in some way to get a bit of help, start with a genuine positive statement, and then bring the bad news, and then make another positive statement. Positive, negative, positive.
Example:
"Hey, this fair is ****ing awesome and the rides are sweet, but I just worked out like crazy last night, so my legs are killing me just standing around constantly. Let's take a seat. We can have some delicious cotton candy!"
Simple, really. Positivity first. Real men don't get butthurt and angry over stupid sh!t, but they're also not passive and inactive. We're DJs, but buddhists. Nihilism does not have to take the path of inaction.
On another note, meditation is a great stress reliever and great for introspection on many levels, including (I know it sounds "Crazy") spiritual levels.