Lo Hung Wang
Don Juan
Im not sure how many people meditate, or have even considered meditation, but I've been doing it for approximately a year and it has really proven to be an essential part of my day - I'd go as far as to say my life as well.
First of all, before you reject my idea, consider this:
Doesn't improving and respecting your mind and body help you lead a truer, more fulfilling life?
Wouldn't this notion in turn dramatically increase your self-confidence?
Would this then aid your DJ'ing Skills? It sure as hell does for me.
Meditating doesn't mean you have to get rid of all your posessions, it doesn't mean you have to shave your head and find the nearest monestary. Meditation (for me) is simply purging the mind of useless thought for more clarity towards your environment and yourself. You dont have to cross your legs asian style or have a prayer wheel with you or use incense. It's really up to you.
Heres how it works personally:
Im about to meet up with a chick. She's easily an 8/10. I know that my enfatuation meter will be running high..........So I meditate before hand. Maybe 30 to 45 minutes - doing this slows down my heart rate and clears my mind. I can litterally "see" the reasons why I am enfatuated with her, I can also see and feel my own worth as a person. THE WHOLE PERSON that I am. After doing this my enfatuation goes down.... waaay down. The meditation didn't lower her self worth , it brought mine up. And thats the best part of it - Its like a natural self-taught confidence injection right into your brain. The more you practice, the more it pinpoints your insecurites and falsehoods. Then its up to you to change them. (and a Don Juan should).
You know how after a disgustingly intense physical workout your body is "keyed" up? Or maybe you've noticed that your thinking is clearer - fine tuned? Tasks become easier, less daunting, even trivial? Maybe you've noticed that after your work-out your attitude reflects that of self confidence: not nescesarily looking for a fight but knowing that you will fvck the opponent up if it comes to that?
The above feelings can be achieved through meditation. Intense Concentration on oneself.
oh yeah. And chicks can detect that aura from half-way accross the planet.
Another HUGE aspect about meditation is its ego limiting qualities. I think a true DJ doesn't use ****yness, He doesn't need to use his ego; if you know your number 1... whats the point of showing off? You don't have to look like a badass and pretend you break all the rules.... because your the one who makes them.
Il admit one thing. Acting slightly ****y (ego) does get results.(probably 90 percent of the female population responds to it) But being confident will not only feel better on your end, it will increase the quality (not the frequency) of your responses. Ego can't last in LTR - but confidence can.
Hey, meditation is just another weapon in my arsenal - I highly suggest trying it.
First of all, before you reject my idea, consider this:
Doesn't improving and respecting your mind and body help you lead a truer, more fulfilling life?
Wouldn't this notion in turn dramatically increase your self-confidence?
Would this then aid your DJ'ing Skills? It sure as hell does for me.
Meditating doesn't mean you have to get rid of all your posessions, it doesn't mean you have to shave your head and find the nearest monestary. Meditation (for me) is simply purging the mind of useless thought for more clarity towards your environment and yourself. You dont have to cross your legs asian style or have a prayer wheel with you or use incense. It's really up to you.
Heres how it works personally:
Im about to meet up with a chick. She's easily an 8/10. I know that my enfatuation meter will be running high..........So I meditate before hand. Maybe 30 to 45 minutes - doing this slows down my heart rate and clears my mind. I can litterally "see" the reasons why I am enfatuated with her, I can also see and feel my own worth as a person. THE WHOLE PERSON that I am. After doing this my enfatuation goes down.... waaay down. The meditation didn't lower her self worth , it brought mine up. And thats the best part of it - Its like a natural self-taught confidence injection right into your brain. The more you practice, the more it pinpoints your insecurites and falsehoods. Then its up to you to change them. (and a Don Juan should).
You know how after a disgustingly intense physical workout your body is "keyed" up? Or maybe you've noticed that your thinking is clearer - fine tuned? Tasks become easier, less daunting, even trivial? Maybe you've noticed that after your work-out your attitude reflects that of self confidence: not nescesarily looking for a fight but knowing that you will fvck the opponent up if it comes to that?
The above feelings can be achieved through meditation. Intense Concentration on oneself.
oh yeah. And chicks can detect that aura from half-way accross the planet.
Another HUGE aspect about meditation is its ego limiting qualities. I think a true DJ doesn't use ****yness, He doesn't need to use his ego; if you know your number 1... whats the point of showing off? You don't have to look like a badass and pretend you break all the rules.... because your the one who makes them.
Il admit one thing. Acting slightly ****y (ego) does get results.(probably 90 percent of the female population responds to it) But being confident will not only feel better on your end, it will increase the quality (not the frequency) of your responses. Ego can't last in LTR - but confidence can.
Hey, meditation is just another weapon in my arsenal - I highly suggest trying it.