"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Meditation November 2017 Challenge

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Similiar to our NoFap challenge, meditation November challenge will be to practice meditation daily to help it become a habit. I used to be disciplined with meditation 5~25 minutes a day for a while until I let life get busy and it fell out of habit. I can remember feeling more chill and relaxed. I didn't let every little small thing bother me. I was less reactionary. In other words, I thought more clearly with consideration before I gave my answer.

There are numerous benefits to meditation that I won't get in to great deal as I have in previous threads. Here's a few URLs that you can do your own research:
https://www.artofliving.org/us-en/meditation/meditation-for-you/benefits-of-meditation
http://liveanddare.com/benefits-of-meditation/
http://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/meditation/in-depth/meditation/art-20045858
http://ineedmotivation.com/100-benefits-of-meditation/

Recent SS threads on meditation:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/meditation.238515/#post-2425292
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/meditation-tonis-365-day-adventure.243306/#post-2478820
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/meditate-read-gym-game-repeat.243872/

I'll begin November 1st and report back in this thread time to time. I'm going to start with 5 mins. in the first week, then 10, then 15, then 20 minutes daily by week 4. Anyone else game and need some accountability? This is your meditation thread for November. :)

You can follow simple breathing techniques to begin meditation or you can find a few meditation apps on your smart phone app store like Headspace, Calm, Breathe2Relax, Meditation, and Pacifica.

Interesting video:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I did a meditation exercise for 10 minutes before bed and I fell asleep quicker than normal last night.

Going to keep the habit moving forward.

I would be interested in hearing others who have a consistent disciplined habit of mediation and their thoughts on how it effects inner game and over all well-being.

In other words, how did it effect your ability to be present in the moment and an active listener in set?
 
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