Mechanics of plate-spinning

[betaphaggot]

Hi guys,

Just read the entirety of Rollo Tomassi's blog (took a few days!) and must say it's about the best stuff I've ever read on "Game" on the internet. However, and as he himself owns, he's not big on the nitty-gritty details of carrying out Game, moreso he concentrates on the mentality behind it.

So, basically I was wondering if you guys could fill me in on the details of plate-spinning. Things like:

- how do I start? If I kiss a girl at a club and get her number, should I just text her for a date asap? Or should I focus only on F closes?
- What kind of "dates" (if that) should I set up?
- I'm wiling to be open about non-exclusivity, but how do I answer if I'm directly asked?
- any other tips and tricks?

BTW my goal is not monogamy, just to gain as many sexual experiences as I can.

Thanks guys

 

[wataf]

Only trick you need to know about plate spinning is NEVER focus all your effort to 1 girl you should have atleast 5 #'s on your phone that you talk to on the regular some of may have as booty call some may be close.....if you **** up with 1 plate you still got 4+ more to back you up

 

[betaphaggot]

Only trick you need to know about plate spinning is NEVER focus all your effort to 1 girl you should have atleast 5 #'s on your phone that you talk to on the regular some of may have as booty call some may be close.....if you **** up with 1 plate you still got 4+ more to back you up

Sounds about right. It's just the communication I can't seem to grasp. I used to never take numbers after closes and now I'm starting to do it but never seem to know how to initiate communication. A lot of the trouble could be I'm usually quite drunk when I meet the girls so I'd be a different person the next time.

 

[wataf]

Sounds about right. It's just the communication I can't seem to grasp. I used to never take numbers after closes and now I'm starting to do it but never seem to know how to initiate communication. A lot of the trouble could be I'm usually quite drunk when I meet the girls so I'd be a different person the next time.

haha respect bro im quite drunk when i meet girls too, as long as you **** em right they will want to come back, no matter how different you are so get the # and start spinnin some plates!

 

[JohnChops]

the point of spinning plates is to make sure you always have options, never get oneitis, makes you less available . These traits are great because they make you a mystery as well, perfect thing you want to achieve.

 

[betaphaggot]

the point of spinning plates is to make sure you always have options, never get oneitis, makes you less available . These traits are great because they make you a mystery as well, perfect thing you want to achieve.

Yeah I'm well versed on the theory behind it. Looking for practical tips.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Man I am not an avid juggler, but the jist is :

(1) ensure your plates do not cross paths -- diversify.
(2) any dates you want are valid--man it's whatever YOU would like to do with them (they they will enjoy also)
(3) kisses & f-closes -- this is your call also man, if you want to kiss em go for it, if you want to F-em, go for it--some plates you may change your mind about, or some chicks you might not want to F if they are crazy or bishy. Get their number anyway you'd like -- sometimes I just wait till the right moment post-rapport building, and that usually flows. Other times I've asked upfront and barely knew her and she was down.
(4) Exclusivity--you might want to ask some others who are more experienced at juggling, but it all depends man--some chicks aren't going to want to be part of your harem and will want to get exclusive on you--other chicks will be cool with that..I always said, "I'm just not looking for anything serious now" which allows the door to stay open for sexuality/fun but also sort of hitting the breaks on "we're GF/BF now! whooopee!"

Others here can verse you in more. Start browsing the site for threads/articles on plate spinning...

BE LUCKY you are in a place where you can have a lot of plates...this town is so small I might just run into the same person 3x a day...plate spinning here is difficult!

 

[betaphaggot]

Man I am not an avid juggler, but the jist is :

(1) ensure your plates do not cross paths -- diversify.
(2) any dates you want are valid--man it's whatever YOU would like to do with them (they they will enjoy also)
(3) kisses & f-closes -- this is your call also man, if you want to kiss em go for it, if you want to F-em, go for it--some plates you may change your mind about, or some chicks you might not want to F if they are crazy or bishy. Get their number anyway you'd like -- sometimes I just wait till the right moment post-rapport building, and that usually flows. Other times I've asked upfront and barely knew her and she was down.
(4) Exclusivity--you might want to ask some others who are more experienced at juggling, but it all depends man--some chicks aren't going to want to be part of your harem and will want to get exclusive on you--other chicks will be cool with that..I always said, "I'm just not looking for anything serious now" which allows the door to stay open for sexuality/fun but also sort of hitting the breaks on "we're GF/BF now! whooopee!"

Others here can verse you in more. Start browsing the site for threads/articles on plate spinning...

BE LUCKY you are in a place where you can have a lot of plates...this town is so small I might just run into the same person 3x a day...plate spinning here is difficult!

Very good advice IMO, thanks. How big is your town population wise?

 

[Buddha_Mind]

7K, 30miles of isolation to the next city...and it's not exactly filled with super models...if you dig chicks with big trucks and tweety bird shirts you're in business tho!

 

[betaphaggot]

7K, 30miles of isolation to the next city...and it's not exactly filled with super models...if you dig chicks with big trucks and tweety bird shirts you're in business tho!

7k! That's a tough one...hang tough bro! :box:

 

[Greasy Pig]

I live in a town of 8k and you can't fart in the shower without someone gossiping about it.
Luckily there's a major city an hour away but I am banging one local girl who has respected my request for discretion, but she got drunk the other night and started texting me how she's with her friends and my name came up.
I gently reminded her not to gossip and haven't replied to her last three messages. I'm sure she'll be back though.

The key to spinning plates is discretion. In fact, I'm rarely seen in public with my plates and I don't organise to go on dates with them.
I go to their homes for drinks or vice versa.
If I run into them out on the town, I'll acknowledge them, have a drink with them and take em home for sex, but I give no indication to anyone else in the pub that I'm "taken" for the night by being overly affectionate with them.

You have to condition them to see you as a fun guy to hang out with but one who can't ever really be nailed down outside of pre-arranged meetings. Be a challenge and don't to be too available.
I keep contact with them very sparse and escalate the communication only to organise to meet up.

I have two plates in regular rotation and see them once a week on alternate weekends only (so, every second weekend). The rest of the time, I'm unavailable.
They live in different towns so that's cool.

I have another one 1500km away but she lives with her BF and we only get to fvck about twice a year.
I have a fourth one who I really only bang every couple of months when I go out and text her drunk at 4am, and an old plate just texted me last night to say she was fighting with the guy she stopped fvcking me for and wanted to know what I was doing this weekend.
So potentially I could have five options on the table by this weekend.
All in different towns, all quite attractive and all happy to interact with me on my terms......for now. He he.
I'm sure it'll all come crashing down soon but I'm riding the wave while it lasts!

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

It's all about the moment of inertia.....

 

[betaphaggot]

I live in a town of 8k and you can't fart in the shower without someone gossiping about it.
Luckily there's a major city an hour away but I am banging one local girl who has respected my request for discretion, but she got drunk the other night and started texting me how she's with her friends and my name came up.
I gently reminded her not to gossip and haven't replied to her last three messages. I'm sure she'll be back though.

The key to spinning plates is discretion. In fact, I'm rarely seen in public with my plates and I don't organise to go on dates with them.
I go to their homes for drinks or vice versa.
If I run into them out on the town, I'll acknowledge them, have a drink with them and take em home for sex, but I give no indication to anyone else in the pub that I'm "taken" for the night by being overly affectionate with them.

You have to condition them to see you as a fun guy to hang out with but one who can't ever really be nailed down outside of pre-arranged meetings. Be a challenge and don't to be too available.
I keep contact with them very sparse and escalate the communication only to organise to meet up.

I have two plates in regular rotation and see them once a week on alternate weekends only (so, every second weekend). The rest of the time, I'm unavailable.
They live in different towns so that's cool.

I have another one 1500km away but she lives with her BF and we only get to fvck about twice a year.
I have a fourth one who I really only bang every couple of months when I go out and text her drunk at 4am, and an old plate just texted me last night to say she was fighting with the guy she stopped fvcking me for and wanted to know what I was doing this weekend.
So potentially I could have five options on the table by this weekend.
All in different towns, all quite attractive and all happy to interact with me on my terms......for now. He he.
I'm sure it'll all come crashing down soon but I'm riding the wave while it lasts!

Good advice, thanks

 

[betaphaggot]

It's all about the moment of inertia.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8X_Ot0k4XJc