"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when you do this are you supposed to be flexing/contorting to get the biggest possible measurement (or sucking in your gut on the waist) or are you supposed to measure lets say your arm when its relaxed and in a resting position?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you're measuring for clothing, you should be relaxed. If you're measuring for bullsh!tting rights, then you can take both flexed and relaxed, as long as you say which is which when you're telling people.
 
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Well, in those journals and BB articles, a 19-inch bicep refers to the circumference of the bicep when flexed. I don't know why you need to know this info though. This is kinda meaningless for an average Joe.
 
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Originally posted by OddTech
Well, in those journals and BB articles, a 19-inch bicep refers to the circumference of the bicep when flexed. I don't know why you need to know this info though. This is kinda meaningless for an average Joe.
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so you can measure your own progress .....duh
 
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