"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What a summer it has been. Trails have been packed, restaurants packed, lots of traffic, six parks constantly full, bars and clubs packed to the brim. And no sign of stopping. Bar friends are making loads of money a weekend, too. Girls are out and about looking sexy af. Families with their annoying crying kids. Fat girls wearing stuff they shouldn't. What a time. Now the fall festivals are coming about, and it's going to be even more eventful the coming halloween month.

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  • Brunette woman in the white tank top with the orange hat backward is attractive
  • Brunette woman in the green shirt checking her phone is attractive
  • Blonde woman with the sunglasses and reddish tube top is attractive
That picture looks more like 2018 than 2021.
 

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This weekend has been heavily favorable for me. My looks and fashion is on point, and with that I was able to bed three women in three days. The girls at the club here in Texas are extra horny for some reason and they had no problem initiating contact with me. I grew out a little beard, wore some new duds, and the girls liked it. Women are superficial, so you have to dress superficial to get them out of their usual moods. This is for quick access more than what you can usually do with just some social game talk.
 

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I always find it interesting looking at different societies. The guys i can see in the pic would be classed as "cheese" in the UK. especially caps on backwards after teenage years.

also sunglasses come off in the UK, as soon as you enter a building or you are classed as a smarmy ****. no tucking them into tops or leaving them on your head.

Just an example of how brutal UK women are.
 

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I imagine the women in the UK are an entirely different breed. Here in the US, they dont care about the hats or anything. As long as you look like their father or someone they superficially look up to, they'll go for it. I suspect, having interacted with foreign women, that they take more masculine features into account. There's also the cultural disconnect likely going on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I always find it interesting looking at different societies. The guys i can see in the pic would be classed as "cheese" in the UK. especially caps on backwards after teenage years.
Not one guy with a simple button-down shirt. All untucked, hiding soft underbelly with crappy T-shirts. Many people buried in their phones. I see no chest bigger than Belly. No stand outs.
 

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I'm definitely going to hit up Austin and South Padre Island when I get back to the states.
Police are going to stop responding to non emergency calls starting friday in Austin, so that city is probably lost. The homeless problem there is immense.
 

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Police are going to stop responding to non emergency calls starting friday in Austin, so that city is probably lost. The homeless problem there is immense.
Yeah I passed by a couple of them when I went barhopping with my bro and his friend. Woulda hated to be them during the power outage problems in late February.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I made a daygame with a girl level 7.5. I must be between 6 and 7. I tell her that she looks good. she asks me, where do you from?, what do you do?. I did not expect it. skipped the steps of flirting and stuff. What would you have done?
 

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Wait a minute, where are all the masks?
 

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I would really like to understand this. I'm being serious.

The first row is three guys that look like they've arrived, but aren't sure what to do.
The next row is of three people that appear to be looking at their phones.
The majority of the remaining crowd appear to be looking off into space or at one of the many TV screens.
Those that arrived with friends to socialize, will have a compromising evening; due to the crowd and TV noise.
There looks to be a minority of folks that are actually attempting to socially engage.

Obviously, there are lots of people into this type of environment or they wouldn't be there.
Based on my above observations, I really don't get it. What is the appeal?
 

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Obviously, there are lots of people into this type of environment or they wouldn't be there.
Based on my above observations, I really don't get it. What is the appeal?
What you're saying makes perfect sense of course, but you're showing your age here lol.
We don't like the extraneous noise and distractions, but to younger folk it's exciting. They just want to get hammered and have fun.
I remember I used to like to do all sorts of stupid things. Well, things that seem stupid to me now, but it made sense then. Sort of. I think it has to do with seeking a common experience, a sense of belonging. All the young people like to be together, even if they're alone while doing it.
 
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