"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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meaningless myspace hookups, can guys reverse the roll?

JH6

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Yeah so,

Out of the blue on a thursday night I get this chic message me, she's clearly cute, not a super hot model, but cute I'll leave it at that.

So anyways we get to chatting, i thought it would be my normal bull**** talk followed up by a phone call.

So like 60 seconds into the convo she says, yeah i think your a really cute guy, we should hookup sometime.

So I get the phone number and we end up hooking up at my house.

So we do the deed, then i drop her off at her moms house the next morning so she can go to work, she is a waitress or something.

So I think to myself, I'll call her back and maybe have a future string of hookups, but she hasn't called me back yet.

Oh well no worries, she either
A didn't like me (highly unlikely)
B the sex was bad (no chance)
C she just wanted a one night stand (most likely).

So my final question would be, have you guys reversed roles, and just talked to chics cold and told them you wanted a hookup, and did it work?

Maybe I have this niceguy block in my head, but the only way I can see this ending is disaster.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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h2o

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nope...

i don't think the reverse works.

i think you can only hookup with the chicks that want you from the start.

i setup a myspace account a day or two ago, and just went on "browse" and added all the semi-cute to cute chicks in my area to my profile.

since then, i've had a few messages, and 2 potential fbs.

i think trying to reverse it would be too much waste of time...most girls on here seem to be attention wh0res anyway

out of those 2 chicks, one i was going to hang with just to see if i could get with her friends later...but i realize that would be too much work too...

i guess on myspace, if you're not really a stud, you can't get too much easy action from hotter girls. as would be somewhat more possible in real-life because you have that ballsy factor, and most guys in real-life aren't doing cold approaches.
 

themanwithnoname

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If you are not a 6 in looks and above, you can forget the entire online internet dating scene and try to meet women the old fashion way.
 

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chicks online are usually fugly anyway
 

JH6

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Originally posted by themanwithnoname
If you are not a 6 in looks and above, you can forget the entire online internet dating scene and try to meet women the old fashion way.
Good tip, I use both ways. Myspace is just a suppliment at best.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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