"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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meaningless myspace hookups, can guys reverse the roll?

JH6

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Yeah so,

Out of the blue on a thursday night I get this chic message me, she's clearly cute, not a super hot model, but cute I'll leave it at that.

So anyways we get to chatting, i thought it would be my normal bull**** talk followed up by a phone call.

So like 60 seconds into the convo she says, yeah i think your a really cute guy, we should hookup sometime.

So I get the phone number and we end up hooking up at my house.

So we do the deed, then i drop her off at her moms house the next morning so she can go to work, she is a waitress or something.

So I think to myself, I'll call her back and maybe have a future string of hookups, but she hasn't called me back yet.

Oh well no worries, she either
A didn't like me (highly unlikely)
B the sex was bad (no chance)
C she just wanted a one night stand (most likely).

So my final question would be, have you guys reversed roles, and just talked to chics cold and told them you wanted a hookup, and did it work?

Maybe I have this niceguy block in my head, but the only way I can see this ending is disaster.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nope...

i don't think the reverse works.

i think you can only hookup with the chicks that want you from the start.

i setup a myspace account a day or two ago, and just went on "browse" and added all the semi-cute to cute chicks in my area to my profile.

since then, i've had a few messages, and 2 potential fbs.

i think trying to reverse it would be too much waste of time...most girls on here seem to be attention wh0res anyway

out of those 2 chicks, one i was going to hang with just to see if i could get with her friends later...but i realize that would be too much work too...

i guess on myspace, if you're not really a stud, you can't get too much easy action from hotter girls. as would be somewhat more possible in real-life because you have that ballsy factor, and most guys in real-life aren't doing cold approaches.
 

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If you are not a 6 in looks and above, you can forget the entire online internet dating scene and try to meet women the old fashion way.
 

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chicks online are usually fugly anyway
 

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Originally posted by themanwithnoname
If you are not a 6 in looks and above, you can forget the entire online internet dating scene and try to meet women the old fashion way.
Good tip, I use both ways. Myspace is just a suppliment at best.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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