"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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me vs brother

Jair213

Jair213

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So I got in an argument with my brother.

he was telling about that i need to get my stuff together and be more responsible
but on the other hand this dude is a freaken alcoholic, has being caught drunk
driving twice. if they catch him again they will.deport hes ass back to mexico
and he's family will suffer the consequences.

and i am working rightnow with him and he freaken drives and drinks every day. my mom
is always worried. He has money and makes good money but still I wanted to slap
his drinking problem in his face while he was telling me all this crap about that I needed
To get my shhiitt together. Witch is true and I appreciated but he was being a dic
And didn't have to be a dic about it.

I just hate it when some one needs more help than you do and then they try to get at you with stuff in a disrespectful way. Ugh
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker

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the thing is we all have problems. just beucase he has problems in one area doesn't mean he is not a viable source of information for another. I was a crack addict. I also ran a company and am very successful in business. Are you not going to take my business advise beucase I smoked crack? you'd be an idiot not to. Are you going to tell me that beucase I smoked crack Ic an't give advice on how to game women? I would hope you wouldn't be that silly.

**** what makes you think he doesn't look at you the exact same way. you think he doesn't know he drinks a little bit too much? But what the **** is my little loser brother telling me about my drinking I'm not hurting him and I'm kicking ass at work and taking names this loser thinks he's the **** simply beucase he doesn't drink but sucks everywhere else. it cuts both ways.

also, what you are doing ironically enough is a trademark of alcoholics and addicts. "i know i have problems but hey at least i'm not as bad as this guy". that's straight out the playbook bro.

you want someone to co-sign your bull****. plain and simple.
 
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bb is right.

Instead of blaming him, understand what he's doing right.
 
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