"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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me vs brother

Jair213

Jair213

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So I got in an argument with my brother.

he was telling about that i need to get my stuff together and be more responsible
but on the other hand this dude is a freaken alcoholic, has being caught drunk
driving twice. if they catch him again they will.deport hes ass back to mexico
and he's family will suffer the consequences.

and i am working rightnow with him and he freaken drives and drinks every day. my mom
is always worried. He has money and makes good money but still I wanted to slap
his drinking problem in his face while he was telling me all this crap about that I needed
To get my shhiitt together. Witch is true and I appreciated but he was being a dic
And didn't have to be a dic about it.

I just hate it when some one needs more help than you do and then they try to get at you with stuff in a disrespectful way. Ugh
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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backbreaker

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the thing is we all have problems. just beucase he has problems in one area doesn't mean he is not a viable source of information for another. I was a crack addict. I also ran a company and am very successful in business. Are you not going to take my business advise beucase I smoked crack? you'd be an idiot not to. Are you going to tell me that beucase I smoked crack Ic an't give advice on how to game women? I would hope you wouldn't be that silly.

**** what makes you think he doesn't look at you the exact same way. you think he doesn't know he drinks a little bit too much? But what the **** is my little loser brother telling me about my drinking I'm not hurting him and I'm kicking ass at work and taking names this loser thinks he's the **** simply beucase he doesn't drink but sucks everywhere else. it cuts both ways.

also, what you are doing ironically enough is a trademark of alcoholics and addicts. "i know i have problems but hey at least i'm not as bad as this guy". that's straight out the playbook bro.

you want someone to co-sign your bull****. plain and simple.
 
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bb is right.

Instead of blaming him, understand what he's doing right.
 
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