“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Me V An Natural

DJsparky

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My friends a natural and for some reason he steals all the girls i get with or attract... So i was thinking about what he does, he mirror's there feelings, mirrors them, his better looking then me but what i dont get is he relates so much better by mirroring and im my own self, i dont fake the mirroring he gives into girls quicker then i do, but he attracts them quicker and friday is coming up and his already attracted this girl from me, its going to be a bummer because shes coming to see me but his not the bro's before ho's type he'll flirt with her but the problem isnt that its the fact that his a natural and steals EVERY girl its like i cant win, its a battle between me and him, and his the new age sensitive type i want to win this time, any tips?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wayword

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Sounds like you can approach, attract and raise BT - but he knows how to build rapport/comfort and swoops in to takeover where you left off.

So, work on your rapport/comfort-building phase. Use mirroring, psychoanalysis, cold-reading, etc to find your HP.
 

mountain

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don't create a self-actualizing prophecy for yourself by believing you can't beat him. he's not going to take every girl from you if you man up and make moves.
 

Dannyrt34

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What a great friend. I actually think you should learn from him. But until you get better, maybe don't take the girls that interest you around him.

Sounds like a plan!
 
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