"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Me V An Natural

DJsparky

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My friends a natural and for some reason he steals all the girls i get with or attract... So i was thinking about what he does, he mirror's there feelings, mirrors them, his better looking then me but what i dont get is he relates so much better by mirroring and im my own self, i dont fake the mirroring he gives into girls quicker then i do, but he attracts them quicker and friday is coming up and his already attracted this girl from me, its going to be a bummer because shes coming to see me but his not the bro's before ho's type he'll flirt with her but the problem isnt that its the fact that his a natural and steals EVERY girl its like i cant win, its a battle between me and him, and his the new age sensitive type i want to win this time, any tips?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wayword

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Sounds like you can approach, attract and raise BT - but he knows how to build rapport/comfort and swoops in to takeover where you left off.

So, work on your rapport/comfort-building phase. Use mirroring, psychoanalysis, cold-reading, etc to find your HP.
 

mountain

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don't create a self-actualizing prophecy for yourself by believing you can't beat him. he's not going to take every girl from you if you man up and make moves.
 

Dannyrt34

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What a great friend. I actually think you should learn from him. But until you get better, maybe don't take the girls that interest you around him.

Sounds like a plan!
 
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