me or her

[easyjim]

Me: hey
her: hey who is this
me: TD I met you at JOJO's house last week
her: oh yeah i remember
me: I did too
me: I want to see if your as nice as you are cute
her: haha

wait a few min for signs of life....

me: your real talkative. Are you shy?
her: kinda
me: get over it
her: maybe you talk to much
me: I don't think so

wait more minutes, getting bored....

me: your boring me miss shy. later
her: ok bye bye

No matter what her problems was, She obcviously wasn't the type of girl I like being around because she's no fun. My question for you guys is, regarless of wether she's cool or not, do you guys think I turned her off by the stuff I said or was she just really not interested to begin with?

 

[penkitten]

sounds like maybe her family or parents or whatever was in the same room and she didnt want to say much

stop reading so much into everything

you will know soon enough if she likes you

 

[fender85]

Did you have any other contact information besides her IM? If not, how'd you get her sn anyway, stalker! Anyway, it's always easy to armchair quarterback, but my personal opinion, you lost her after that first paragraph. You were the one who IMed her, so you can't really just expect her to start the conversation. You should lead her in a bit, "So what are you doing?" - "What's up?" - "How's it going?" - Whatver the hell else we humans use as buffers to begin conversations.

 

[easyjim]

Nope, got her sn from a mutual friend. I don't like the idea impassively waiting to see if I would ever see her again.

She turned me off by just saying 'haha'. I was expecting some wit. That's what I'm looking for. I'm just starting to re-learn all this stuff so I wasn't sure if I approached it correctly or not.