"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Me and OLD, not really an iconic duo

Prodoge

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Last week I got 10+ matches on Tinder and another app combined (I dont swipe everyone only ones i find attractive) but managed to set up 0 dates.

I know it is the way i start the conversation even though i tried to stick to SS tips such as going for the date in as little texts as possible. But it doesn't appear to be working for me.

Also I find it difficult to figure out what to say to trigger interest. In other words how far do your go with the first texts ?

Another problem is my old is in french or german so it wont bring much if i post it here for you guys to check it out
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Urbanyst

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I made a guide to OLD apps recently:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/dating-app-thrive-guide-for-tinder-bumble.242221/

Remember that a lot of women are attention wh0ring on Tinder. That's why I don't put much thought into how I start conversations. I just tell the girl her pictures are cute and ask her a random question related to the most interesting picture she has.

There have been times I opened with nothing but "cute pics" and got a reply. It all boils down to how attractive she finds you.. not really your first message.
 
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