"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Me and OLD, not really an iconic duo

Prodoge

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Last week I got 10+ matches on Tinder and another app combined (I dont swipe everyone only ones i find attractive) but managed to set up 0 dates.

I know it is the way i start the conversation even though i tried to stick to SS tips such as going for the date in as little texts as possible. But it doesn't appear to be working for me.

Also I find it difficult to figure out what to say to trigger interest. In other words how far do your go with the first texts ?

Another problem is my old is in french or german so it wont bring much if i post it here for you guys to check it out
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I made a guide to OLD apps recently:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/dating-app-thrive-guide-for-tinder-bumble.242221/

Remember that a lot of women are attention wh0ring on Tinder. That's why I don't put much thought into how I start conversations. I just tell the girl her pictures are cute and ask her a random question related to the most interesting picture she has.

There have been times I opened with nothing but "cute pics" and got a reply. It all boils down to how attractive she finds you.. not really your first message.
 
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