"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Me and my girlfriend have been together for a month

we all eat food

Senior Don Juan
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Were both 18 and shes a virgin, anyways pretty much all weve done is fingering and thats it, nothing with my ****, how do i get her get in my pants, i know she likes me but shes pretty shy, and i dont think she knows wat to do any help kthx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tear Gas

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lets start small...do you both understand how sex works?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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just whip out your tool and do some dirty/ c&f talk with her. put it up to her face. grab her hand and guide it to your man hood. do somthing!
 
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