Me and my best friend's girlfriend just got into an argument about attraction?

[MusicMan450]

So, I'm pretty good friends with my friend's girlfriend. We kind of give each other tips and stuff when it comes to relationships.

We got into the whole "It's harder for men to attract women than vice-versa" thing. So I, being completely blunt, explained how attraction works for males. We basically look for a girl that we find amazingly attractive, and we decide to go for her. After a while I explained that, as time goes on, attractiveness becomes a little less important and more personal and emotional matters come to hand, but that beauty is what first attracts a guy.

Now she's pissed at me and all other guys who think this way.

Was I wrong for doing this? I'm not talking about whether this will hurt me getting with her, as I have no intention of that, but was it wrong for a friend to be completely honest with a friend?

 

[Audiophile]

but was it wrong for a friend to be completely honest with a friend?

No.

 

[Re-ac-tor]

lol, please, don't be sorry.

Simply, her vanity is butthurt - goes double if she's HB6 or less.

 

[Slickster]

A good rule to remember.

Never talk about how the game works with women.

Even if you get your point across you lose.

 

[ArcBound]

A good rule to remember.

Never talk about how the game works with women.

Even if you get your point across you lose.

Rule #1 You do not talk about fight club

 

[backbreaker]

A good rule to remember.

Never talk about how the game works with women.

Even if you get your point across you lose.

or men for that matter. it feels so "nasty" to some men.It never ends well. they will either be butthurt, hate you, or try their damnest to prove you wrong

 

[Chickfight]

Wow, she needs to get off her high horse.
I usually use my wolf-cow analogy: Guys are like wolves, we gotta chase our prey and hunt them down. Girls are like cows. All they gotta do if they want to get hunted is stand around looking delicious and go "moo".
Always gets a laugh. Maybe it's just how you present it.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Never talk about the game, You keep it to yourself.

 

[Blusher]

A good rule to remember.

Never talk about how the game works with women.

Even if you get your point across you lose.

My experience tells me the absolute opposite. It's a prime subject of conversation and one i'd be hard pressed to avoid given the nature of my job.

What I wouldn't have expected a few years ago is that they mostly shere the same views. There's no big secret, that Fight club analogy is a bit childish.

 

[bish0p]

Wow, she needs to get off her high horse.
I usually use my wolf-cow analogy: Guys are like wolves, we gotta chase our prey and hunt them down. Girls are like cows. All they gotta do if they want to get hunted is stand around looking delicious and go "moo".
Always gets a laugh. Maybe it's just how you present it.

hahaha