i just had one of the weirdest moments of my life. she was 16 and a virgin. we almost had sex. but it was too soon for her. have a read...
*** = our names
[04:02:53 PM] HER: hi
[04:02:56 PM] HER: i uhm, need to talk to u
[04:03:11 PM] ME: hey
[04:03:14 PM] ME: go for it
[04:03:59 PM] HER: ok, well i dont know a way to say this, other than
being blunt, but i cant see you anymore
[04:04:12 PM] ME: i know.
[04:04:21 PM] ME: and it's okay.
[04:04:34 PM] HER: well rnt u mr phsycic
[04:04:40 PM] HER: it is?
[04:04:44 PM] ME: was getting obvious
[04:04:51 PM] ME: what happened anyway
[04:05:14 PM] HER: nothing rly...i just dont rly want a relationship
[04:05:34 PM] ME: come on ***. is that really the whole reason.
[04:05:35 PM] ME:
[04:06:34 PM] HER: uh, only small things i spose, just the whole age
difference, butpretty much coz i dont want to be involved
[04:06:41 PM] HER: i dont have a proper reason
[04:07:20 PM] ME: it seemed different when we were together. now you just dont want to be in a relationship? just like that?
[04:08:04 PM] HER: alot of it was physical ***, i dont have any other
feelings
[04:08:26 PM] ME: has this got anything to do with your mom?
[04:08:52 PM] HER: no, nothing to do with mom. in fact she told me that it was stupid now, consider u met her
[04:09:21 PM] ME: alright. fair enough.
[04:09:24 PM] ME: i have to admit.
[04:09:40 PM] ME: it wasn't going to be long term. the age thing is something that does change the whole thing
[04:09:56 PM] ME: but all the hanging out, i enjoyed it
[04:10:08 PM] HER: me to
[04:10:49 PM] ME: well im glad you told me this.
[04:11:42 PM] HER: i didn't know how or if i could, but i didn't want to keep going with it, if it wasn't going anywhere, but like u said, ive had fun aswel
[04:12:24 PM] ME: it's not our fault i guess. there was no chemistry
[04:13:36 PM] * HER is now Away (idle)
[04:13:45 PM] * HER is now Online
[04:14:05 PM] HER nods
[04:14:46 PM] ME: you started thinkin about this the night i left yeah?
[04:14:57 PM] HER: yeah
[04:15:15 PM] HER: and its done my head in since :S
[04:15:21 PM] ME: woulda been worse i guess if we kept lying ourself into it
[04:15:49 PM] HER: yeah thats tru maybe. I duno if i could have tried
it more tho
[04:16:17 PM] ME: its my fault really
[04:16:33 PM] ME: i knew you were young and i was chasing ya. but you were making me chase!
[04:16:49 PM] HER: why
[04:16:57 PM] HER: lol
[04:17:01 PM] ME: lets just say
[04:17:16 PM] ME: i kept thinking you were my age.
[04:17:29 PM] HER: i dunno if thats a good or bad thing
[04:17:34 PM] ME: its good.
[04:17:40 PM] HER: okay
[04:17:41 PM] ME: you're a mature gal for your age thats good
[04:17:56 PM] HER: well, i hope its good lol
[04:18:05 PM] ME: this is weird isnt it
[04:18:38 PM] HER: yes
[04:18:49 PM] ME: i guess we learnt something though. it wasn't anything bad
04:19:41 PM] HER: yeah, so...we're still cool?
[04:19:51 PM] ME: of course.
[04:20:02 PM] ME: im not gona get all angry and stop talking
[04:20:06 PM] ME: we were always friends.
[04:20:34 PM] HER: good
[04:21:15 PM] HER: ah i shouldn't have stressed over this so much
[04:21:29 PM] ME: lol
[04:21:44 PM] ME: what do you think it was mostly for you though
[04:21:46 PM] ME: the age thing?
[04:21:58 PM] HER: yes
[04:22:07 PM] HER: even if u didn't seem that much older
[04:22:10 PM] ME: deep down. they rarely work
[04:22:15 PM] ME: so you're right there
[04:22:21 PM] HER: as r u
[04:22:43 PM] ME: i felt we were more on the friends side too
[04:22:54 PM] ME: and it was gona stay like that
[04:23:26 PM] HER: yeah
[04:23:39 PM] HER: well, better to know it
[04:24:30 PM] ME: not many people end relationships like this lol
[04:24:37 PM] ME: i think we did good
[04:24:57 PM] HER: lol well im thankful it was like this
[04:25:25 PM] ME: i knew you were gonna say it lol
[04:25:58 PM] ME: does anyone else know about this?
[04:26:26 PM] HER: not rly. . .
[04:26:40 PM] ME: i bet your mom will be happy.
[04:26:47 PM] HER shrugs
[04:26:49 PM] HER: she might
[04:26:54 PM] HER: i dont care if shes happy or not heh
[04:27:09 PM] ME: so are you okay ***?
[04:27:18 PM] ME: with what happened just now
[04:27:28 PM] HER: yeah im alright
[04:27:31 PM] HER:
[04:27:35 PM] ME:
[04:27:47 PM] HER: lol yes, this is still a little weird
[04:27:56 PM] ME: yeah i feel a bit weird too
[04:28:43 PM] HER: but hey, its all good, and ill talk to u later ok, i got my mum telling me im spose to be doing homework >:|
[04:28:54 PM] ME: haha
[04:28:57 PM] ME: okay
[04:29:01 PM] ME: talk soon ***
[04:29:17 PM] HER: alright, catch ya later ***
[04:29:27 PM] * HER is now Offline
so there you have it. a nice break up. and i'm kinda glad. i know why too. i knew i didn't really want to be with her. it never felt right. we did have our cuddles and kisses but there was never love. no chemistry. i want love and i want long term. i knew it wasn't going to work out. so yes, in a way i'm glad this happened. we're still friends too. so it's all good. just thought i'd share that with you guys.
*** = our names
[04:02:53 PM] HER: hi
[04:02:56 PM] HER: i uhm, need to talk to u
[04:03:11 PM] ME: hey
[04:03:14 PM] ME: go for it
[04:03:59 PM] HER: ok, well i dont know a way to say this, other than
being blunt, but i cant see you anymore
[04:04:12 PM] ME: i know.
[04:04:21 PM] ME: and it's okay.
[04:04:34 PM] HER: well rnt u mr phsycic
[04:04:40 PM] HER: it is?
[04:04:44 PM] ME: was getting obvious
[04:04:51 PM] ME: what happened anyway
[04:05:14 PM] HER: nothing rly...i just dont rly want a relationship
[04:05:34 PM] ME: come on ***. is that really the whole reason.
[04:05:35 PM] ME:
[04:06:34 PM] HER: uh, only small things i spose, just the whole age
difference, butpretty much coz i dont want to be involved
[04:06:41 PM] HER: i dont have a proper reason
[04:07:20 PM] ME: it seemed different when we were together. now you just dont want to be in a relationship? just like that?
[04:08:04 PM] HER: alot of it was physical ***, i dont have any other
feelings
[04:08:26 PM] ME: has this got anything to do with your mom?
[04:08:52 PM] HER: no, nothing to do with mom. in fact she told me that it was stupid now, consider u met her
[04:09:21 PM] ME: alright. fair enough.
[04:09:24 PM] ME: i have to admit.
[04:09:40 PM] ME: it wasn't going to be long term. the age thing is something that does change the whole thing
[04:09:56 PM] ME: but all the hanging out, i enjoyed it
[04:10:08 PM] HER: me to
[04:10:49 PM] ME: well im glad you told me this.
[04:11:42 PM] HER: i didn't know how or if i could, but i didn't want to keep going with it, if it wasn't going anywhere, but like u said, ive had fun aswel
[04:12:24 PM] ME: it's not our fault i guess. there was no chemistry
[04:13:36 PM] * HER is now Away (idle)
[04:13:45 PM] * HER is now Online
[04:14:05 PM] HER nods
[04:14:46 PM] ME: you started thinkin about this the night i left yeah?
[04:14:57 PM] HER: yeah
[04:15:15 PM] HER: and its done my head in since :S
[04:15:21 PM] ME: woulda been worse i guess if we kept lying ourself into it
[04:15:49 PM] HER: yeah thats tru maybe. I duno if i could have tried
it more tho
[04:16:17 PM] ME: its my fault really
[04:16:33 PM] ME: i knew you were young and i was chasing ya. but you were making me chase!
[04:16:49 PM] HER: why
[04:16:57 PM] HER: lol
[04:17:01 PM] ME: lets just say
[04:17:16 PM] ME: i kept thinking you were my age.
[04:17:29 PM] HER: i dunno if thats a good or bad thing
[04:17:34 PM] ME: its good.
[04:17:40 PM] HER: okay
[04:17:41 PM] ME: you're a mature gal for your age thats good
[04:17:56 PM] HER: well, i hope its good lol
[04:18:05 PM] ME: this is weird isnt it
[04:18:38 PM] HER: yes
[04:18:49 PM] ME: i guess we learnt something though. it wasn't anything bad
04:19:41 PM] HER: yeah, so...we're still cool?
[04:19:51 PM] ME: of course.
[04:20:02 PM] ME: im not gona get all angry and stop talking
[04:20:06 PM] ME: we were always friends.
[04:20:34 PM] HER: good
[04:21:15 PM] HER: ah i shouldn't have stressed over this so much
[04:21:29 PM] ME: lol
[04:21:44 PM] ME: what do you think it was mostly for you though
[04:21:46 PM] ME: the age thing?
[04:21:58 PM] HER: yes
[04:22:07 PM] HER: even if u didn't seem that much older
[04:22:10 PM] ME: deep down. they rarely work
[04:22:15 PM] ME: so you're right there
[04:22:21 PM] HER: as r u
[04:22:43 PM] ME: i felt we were more on the friends side too
[04:22:54 PM] ME: and it was gona stay like that
[04:23:26 PM] HER: yeah
[04:23:39 PM] HER: well, better to know it
[04:24:30 PM] ME: not many people end relationships like this lol
[04:24:37 PM] ME: i think we did good
[04:24:57 PM] HER: lol well im thankful it was like this
[04:25:25 PM] ME: i knew you were gonna say it lol
[04:25:58 PM] ME: does anyone else know about this?
[04:26:26 PM] HER: not rly. . .
[04:26:40 PM] ME: i bet your mom will be happy.
[04:26:47 PM] HER shrugs
[04:26:49 PM] HER: she might
[04:26:54 PM] HER: i dont care if shes happy or not heh
[04:27:09 PM] ME: so are you okay ***?
[04:27:18 PM] ME: with what happened just now
[04:27:28 PM] HER: yeah im alright
[04:27:31 PM] HER:
[04:27:35 PM] ME:
[04:27:47 PM] HER: lol yes, this is still a little weird
[04:27:56 PM] ME: yeah i feel a bit weird too
[04:28:43 PM] HER: but hey, its all good, and ill talk to u later ok, i got my mum telling me im spose to be doing homework >:|
[04:28:54 PM] ME: haha
[04:28:57 PM] ME: okay
[04:29:01 PM] ME: talk soon ***
[04:29:17 PM] HER: alright, catch ya later ***
[04:29:27 PM] * HER is now Offline
so there you have it. a nice break up. and i'm kinda glad. i know why too. i knew i didn't really want to be with her. it never felt right. we did have our cuddles and kisses but there was never love. no chemistry. i want love and i want long term. i knew it wasn't going to work out. so yes, in a way i'm glad this happened. we're still friends too. so it's all good. just thought i'd share that with you guys.