"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iv'e had this friend for a long time and i decided i wanted more so i started upping all my game, mor kino more flirting and more sexual. I asked her out and she told me that she needed time to think about it. she has given clear and obvious I.O.Is. she descirbed our future relationship as "the maybe zone". So what does this mean to me. Is she in some kind of transition between friends and lovers or is she just ****ing with me and using that just to keep me around. I told her id give her time to think. But im not gonna drop it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anteater16 said:
iv'e had this friend for a long time and i decided i wanted more so i started upping all my game, mor kino more flirting and more sexual. I asked her out and she told me that she needed time to think about it. she has given clear and obvious I.O.Is. she descirbed our future relationship as "the maybe zone". So what does this mean to me. Is she in some kind of transition between friends and lovers or is she just ****ing with me and using that just to keep me around. I told her id give her time to think. But im not gonna drop it.
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Ask her one more time, if she says no, it's the friendzone. Hell, it might be anyway, but the only way to ever know for sure is to plow right ahead.
 
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Captain is right, just plow ahead, see what happens.

In the future you'd be better off not "asking her out" but just continuing to escalate physically. Get more physical. Touch her more, KISS HER!!!!! See how far you can get, THEN things will probably turn more in your favor...she might do the asking in that case ;) You get what I'm saying?
 
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Anteater16 said:
I asked her out and she told me that she needed time to think about it. she has given clear and obvious I.O.Is. she descirbed our future relationship as "the maybe zone".
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Translation: Hi, I'm just an attention wh0re. I don't mind your physical advancements because they get me excited, to a certain point. I will not have sex with you and probably not make out with you. You give me an ego boost when I need it, so I'll keep you around for now, and have you begging at my heals while you wait, in the "maybe zone".


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or is she just ****ing with me and using that just to keep me around.
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Answered your own question.

You might as well listen to the other guys and plow ahead, but don't expect anything.
 
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Yeah man there right, give it one more shot. But don't come off desperate
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is no "maybe zone". The answer is either yes, she will go out with you or no, you're not going to waste your time on waiting for her to say yes. Flirt with her if you want, but move on.
 
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