Maybe zone

[Anteater16]

iv'e had this friend for a long time and i decided i wanted more so i started upping all my game, mor kino more flirting and more sexual. I asked her out and she told me that she needed time to think about it. she has given clear and obvious I.O.Is. she descirbed our future relationship as "the maybe zone". So what does this mean to me. Is she in some kind of transition between friends and lovers or is she just ****ing with me and using that just to keep me around. I told her id give her time to think. But im not gonna drop it.

 

[Captain]

iv'e had this friend for a long time and i decided i wanted more so i started upping all my game, mor kino more flirting and more sexual. I asked her out and she told me that she needed time to think about it. she has given clear and obvious I.O.Is. she descirbed our future relationship as "the maybe zone". So what does this mean to me. Is she in some kind of transition between friends and lovers or is she just ****ing with me and using that just to keep me around. I told her id give her time to think. But im not gonna drop it.

Ask her one more time, if she says no, it's the friendzone. Hell, it might be anyway, but the only way to ever know for sure is to plow right ahead.

 

[ARrocket]

Captain is right, just plow ahead, see what happens.

In the future you'd be better off not "asking her out" but just continuing to escalate physically. Get more physical. Touch her more, KISS HER!!!!! See how far you can get, THEN things will probably turn more in your favor...she might do the asking in that case You get what I'm saying?

 

[AlexLefty]

I asked her out and she told me that she needed time to think about it. she has given clear and obvious I.O.Is. she descirbed our future relationship as "the maybe zone".

Translation: Hi, I'm just an attention wh0re. I don't mind your physical advancements because they get me excited, to a certain point. I will not have sex with you and probably not make out with you. You give me an ego boost when I need it, so I'll keep you around for now, and have you begging at my heals while you wait, in the "maybe zone".

or is she just ****ing with me and using that just to keep me around.

Answered your own question.

You might as well listen to the other guys and plow ahead, but don't expect anything.

 

[FreshMenTank]

Yeah man there right, give it one more shot. But don't come off desperate

 

[ENIGMA16]

There is no "maybe zone". The answer is either yes, she will go out with you or no, you're not going to waste your time on waiting for her to say yes. Flirt with her if you want, but move on.

 

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Either way, you probably ruined a good friendship.

 

[TheJazz]

Be like "Maybe? I'd rather go with no. See ya!" And that's that.