"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe we should shut down the forums

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Climax

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If you dont like it, then LEAVE!

You are an idiot.:down:
 

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So? Leave them to it I say. I'm still learning.
 

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word....what im saying is that the forums are hurtin more people than it is helping by far. I can go int damn near every post in the DJ Forum and spot bad advice, and 4 guys coming afterwards and agreeing. I am not a genius at this stuff, all I did was read the bible. Is it really that hard?

If the forums get shutdown for a while, people can actually read the bible and get in the field instead of posting BS all the time
 

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errrr...

The threads you are feferring to are only threads that suit what YOU are saying... What about all the threads with GOOD advise that actually help MANY people? Why are you dissregarding those threads? People are advised to read the bible BEFORE they come post on these forums, and for those that think that they know it all and give sh!t advice, well then others that HAVE read the bible and those with more experienced will correct them. You cannot count on that happening ALL the time, nothing is perfect, but you saying that this forum brings more bad than good is total nonsence to me! There are guys here that learn and have their problems solved every day, and like I said before, if you think that this forum is bad, then YOU can leave, but suggesting that the forum be closed is idiotic to me.


Laterz....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think just giving people a different perspective on a situation or problem they're having is reason enough to have the forums. I definatly don't take all the advice I read from other people because I do have a mind of my own and I'll concider things before implicating them. I do however read what people are saying and THINK about what they're saying. Everyone has a different perspective, and if what i'm reading is crap then it's really up to me to see that.

Sure there's alot of bad advice going around out there, but it's up to the person who posed the question to use their brain and weed out whats bad from what's not. After reading the bible, anybody should be able to tell good advice from bad advice. If they don't take that first step, it's really their own fault if they go out and try to utilize some one's bad advice.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
I think just giving people a different perspective on a situation or problem they're having is reason enough to have the forums. I definatly don't take all the advice I read from other people because I do have a mind of my own and I'll concider things before implicating them. I do however read what people are saying and THINK about what they're saying. Everyone has a different perspective, and if what i'm reading is crap then it's really up to me to see that.

Sure there's alot of bad advice going around out there, but it's up to the person who posed the question to use their brain and weed out whats bad from what's not. After reading the bible, anybody should be able to tell good advice from bad advice. If they don't take that first step, it's really their own fault if they go out and try to utilize some one's bad advice.
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