"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GrowingPains

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Something to consider...

So I opened a Bumble account and started selling on Tinder again.

Just the free 100 swipes on Tinder. Dunno how many on bumble but the sh!t is addicting ngl.

Anyways, over the past day I got 15 'bees in the hive' and 4 matches on Tinder.

The only thing I changed is that I lowered my standards.

...Oh no.

...You did what?!

Be cool brahs. I realized that online I have the tendency to swipe on girls that are damn near perfect. And right now, that's out of my league, but we'll get there. You might have the same tendency. I started looking at it more simply; 'would I have sex with this girl?' instead of only swiping on 8's+.

Probably doesn't apply to everyone but maybe there's one other lad like me that it'll halp.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backseatjuan

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That’s what you’re supposed to do. Go for women you want to bang. Don’t chase unicorns
CAN instead of want

I actually disagee with this threat, because of my experience with fake female profiles on OLD. It should be possible to at least date HB over your SMV if you approach her properly, because on OLD there is a high chance you are last dck worthy of dating.

I highly suggest to all, at least one time create fake HB profile and see what’s up.


There is another aspect from my experience, going for women like 5s and 6s is more trouble than it worth itself. Going for a 7 is much easier.
 
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