"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i have recently been thinking that maybe i should drop all the trying to teach myself to be dj or pua and just "NOT GIVE A FVCK"


i have done not giving a fvck before, and it has its upsides and downsides.


when u start not giving a fvck... u are so so so free

u don need to worry if this biach is gona like me yadi yadi yada

u can come off as ****y as u can b, and if u r good w/ flow, u can b funny n smooth while at it.


the downside is... not giving too much of a fvck, and mess up.

but the mental liberty from it was amazing...

yes, from today, i will drop all these dj **** for a while and just enjoy

my mentality from all these female seducing bs and not give a fvck.

let my soul just fvcking flow this time. try it yourselves
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most people aren't conscious of seduction techniques and tactics 100% of the time. If by "not giving a fvck" you mean you're not going to try to improve yourself anymore, well then good luck to you because you'll need it in life.

Picking up girls really isn't all there is in the world. Some girls are great, but as you become successful and much more confident in yourself, you'll see that there are some great girls and some bad ones, but in the end you won't be truly fulfilled with only that.

With that said, you should always care about "the process", meaning the actions you take in relation to your character. Coming from who you are is great, if it gets you the results you want, otherwise it helps to learn and embrace the characteristics that make for a more attractive person to women. Ultimately I know you really want to get laid, so you're just lying to us and yourself by pretending that you don't care about the outcome. The key is to not really care about the outcome because you're confident in the way you handle yourself and your life. Your character becomes more important to you than the outcome. You can only control yourself, and not the outside world. Being dependent on outcomes (which are largely out of your control) for happiness and contentment will only lead you to more and more frustration, ultimately making you bitter and unattractive to hot girls.
 
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Not giving a fvck is amazing, you just gotta be careful and make sure you don't settle into doing comfy things, such as oneitis and staying home etc.
 
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