"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maybe solution to all these $hit is...

tarotale

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i have recently been thinking that maybe i should drop all the trying to teach myself to be dj or pua and just "NOT GIVE A FVCK"


i have done not giving a fvck before, and it has its upsides and downsides.


when u start not giving a fvck... u are so so so free

u don need to worry if this biach is gona like me yadi yadi yada

u can come off as ****y as u can b, and if u r good w/ flow, u can b funny n smooth while at it.


the downside is... not giving too much of a fvck, and mess up.

but the mental liberty from it was amazing...

yes, from today, i will drop all these dj **** for a while and just enjoy

my mentality from all these female seducing bs and not give a fvck.

let my soul just fvcking flow this time. try it yourselves
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wjh

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Most people aren't conscious of seduction techniques and tactics 100% of the time. If by "not giving a fvck" you mean you're not going to try to improve yourself anymore, well then good luck to you because you'll need it in life.

Picking up girls really isn't all there is in the world. Some girls are great, but as you become successful and much more confident in yourself, you'll see that there are some great girls and some bad ones, but in the end you won't be truly fulfilled with only that.

With that said, you should always care about "the process", meaning the actions you take in relation to your character. Coming from who you are is great, if it gets you the results you want, otherwise it helps to learn and embrace the characteristics that make for a more attractive person to women. Ultimately I know you really want to get laid, so you're just lying to us and yourself by pretending that you don't care about the outcome. The key is to not really care about the outcome because you're confident in the way you handle yourself and your life. Your character becomes more important to you than the outcome. You can only control yourself, and not the outside world. Being dependent on outcomes (which are largely out of your control) for happiness and contentment will only lead you to more and more frustration, ultimately making you bitter and unattractive to hot girls.
 

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Not giving a fvck is amazing, you just gotta be careful and make sure you don't settle into doing comfy things, such as oneitis and staying home etc.
 
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