maybe i slipped maybe didnt told her to fu@k off...

[Fatal Jay]

did I slip up letting the girl get to me, is it best to show no emotion and just stop talking to her

or did I do some good by telling her to **** off and to go eat a ****

I feel in between because I know your never suppose to show anger, but I felt like this broad should have been put in her place

I let my anger get to me because I haven't bang this chick, which lets me know she is getting banged by someone else.

 

[st_99]

eh, it doesnt matter. The reality is you are at this moment a guy that can get all twisted up by a girl. Those are just the facts. What you said or didnt say is irrelevant. You're still AFC.

So at some point you wont be an AFC anymore and everything that comes out of your mouth will be the right thing. You can tell a girl to fvck off or tell her you miss her and either way it will be perfect if you truly have moved past afc/beta like ways of interacting and thinking about girls.

 

[Fatal Jay]

damn, that was deep truth

I can honestly say I still have a little afc in me,but best believe its almost out of my system

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Jay,
Not worth wasting sleep over,just keep travelling!

 

[Fatal Jay]

you right, its not

thanks bro

 

[Slickster]

So at some point you wont be an AFC anymore and everything that comes out of your mouth will be the right thing. You can tell a girl to fvck off or tell her you miss her and either way it will be perfect if you truly have moved past afc/beta like ways of interacting and thinking about girls.

That's gold!

 

[Fatal Jay]

She text me today

Saying I was an ass and to never call or text again, I told her since she doesn't give a **** why should I

She text back said if I feel that way, then keep it moving, I told her I already have and for her to stop texting me

She sent back a smiley face,and I never responded back

Why do women respond to negativity?

 

[Slickster]

By responding again today you essentially told her that she has gotten to you.

You shouldn't have responded at all.

That smiley face at the end was her way of saying "I win".

Don't give undeserving women an ounce of your attention - ever!!!

 

[SXS]

In this case it doesn't make any difference. You should have put her in her place and showing a little emotion was not a bad thing at all. Also, you should have pointed to her that you were not texting or calling, she was.

 

[Fatal Jay]

i don't know why but two days ago I reconcile with her, I told her since me and her go to the same church we should reconcile,and she said your good

last night I texted her saying "do you miss me" I have no clue why I wrote that

she just texted me back today texting me "you cant be serious"

I shouldn't respond to that text huh?

im about to go nc with this chick....you guys let me know what I should do next

 

[betheman]

i don't know why but two days ago I reconcile with her, I told her since me and her go to the same church we should reconcile,and she said your good

last night I texted her saying "do you miss me" I have no clue why I wrote that

she just texted me back today texting me "you cant be serious"

I shouldn't respond to that text huh?

im about to go nc with this chick....you guys let me know what I should do next

Why do youdo this to yourself? have you read/learned nothing from this site?

 

[origin138]

last night I texted her saying "do you miss me" I have no clue why I wrote that

she just texted me back today texting me "you cant be serious"

Assuming your posts are legit, it's time to move on from this one. Get control of your emotions and master yourself, then you'll master her. Seeking her reassurance in such a way clearly killed whatever attraction (if any) was left after your first convo. Move on, learn, and most importantly, be comfortable in your own skin.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Thanks for knocking sense into me

 

[scrouds]

Anger is good, coming off like a needy cuunt is bad.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Lol your right bro