“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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May need some help with texting post-PoF

Moneytalks

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So, I messages this girl on PoF. She replied, told me how cute the picture of my sister and I is and how much she likes my uniform (I'm in the navy), talked about the weekend and work. There were ten messages all together, including the opener and the number.

So I text her almost straight away:
Me: Hey, it's Tim from PoF x
Her: Hey sailor :) xx (she took about 40 minutes to reply so I took an hour to respond)
Me: hey, I'm gonna go to sleep now because I have work tomorrow. I'll text you if I get a chance though [genuinely mean that. I'm on some counter terrorism exercise most of the week]. night x
Her: okay then :) Yeah, please do :) Night, sweet dreams. X

So I reckon I'll wait until I finish work at noon, then gym it up and try to set something up for through the week. My text game is atrocious, though
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Iceberg

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Maybe I'm doing this wrong, but I really don't have "text game". Especially when it comes to those online dating sites.

Me and the girl will have 2 or 3 email exchanges. On the very last message I'll say something like, "We should grab a beer some time this week. Here's my number. What's yours?"

Once I have the number, the only "text game" I use is, "Hey it's Iceberg. I was thinking we should get a drink at (Bar) on Thursday. How's that work for you?"

There were ten messages all together, including the opener and the number.
I mean, to be blunt, after 10 messages, what more "game" is left? You said all that you could possibly say via electronic communication. The only thing left to do is MEET and see if you like each other. At this point, in my experience, the WORST thing you could do is "game" her via a new form of communication. Know what I mean? Like, after POF game, you graduate to text game...So what's next? Facebook game? Twitter game?

In summary: No more game is necessary. Either this girl wants to meet or she doesn't. Invite her out. Game her in person.
 

Naughty Ninja

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Exactly what Iceberg and Bradd said.

Have a plan to meet up. No time for twitter texting or running some nonsense game on text.

One, two, three emails on POF. Grab number. CALL or text to setup meet. No time to let them 'think' or get comfy playing texting tennis.
 
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