"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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May have screwed it all up...

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Yesterday i chilled with this girl, but there was one little problem, i was high. I hadnt really planned on chilling with her so i smoked with my friend who lives 3 hrs away and was leaving soon. So she ended up calling and wanted to chill. When we did i felt a little akward being that i was high which caused me to over analyze everything. She was giving me hints but i was thinking WAAY too much. She told me she was losing interest then said that i lost my chance. But luckily i was coming down and said the hell with it and made my move. We made out for a while but then she had to leave. It took me 2 hrs to make a move. When i look back on it i dont know if i still have a chance with her or what. Did i f*ck it all up or what?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
Drugs are bad

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Thanks guy...i know that i shouldnt have smoke but i did an cant change it. Just wanna know if im doomed or if a miracle can happen.
 

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It looks fine to me....it seems like her interest was going down a little, but then you started the making out until she left.

Sure it could have been more successful, but it sounds like she'd at the very least chill with you again ;)

It doesn't sound like it was that bad of a failure in the end.
 

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Above all, you scored some hardcore kino. Next time you see her, just make a better impression of yourself and build up your IL. You're not out of the ball game yet. Just don't make the same mistake twice ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you've been here longer than me, you told me off when I made my first post, and then you post this sh!t on how one girl got your sprung?

WTF?

Who gives a fvck if she thinks it is all screwed up, you can make a difference. She says you missed your chance like she's got all the power, but you still made out with her...next she'll say we'll never be an item before you marry her???

It's all about you, if you think you fvcked up then you did. If you act like sh!T is all lovey dovey....
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
you've been here longer than me, you told me off when I made my first post, and then you post this sh!t on how one girl got your sprung?
Right, im sure you remember exactly what i said too?? You got some personal vendetta? I was just asking a damn question cause I know that I took too long. So keep your panties on and chill out.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Yesterday i chilled with this girl, but there was one little problem, i was high. I hadnt really planned on chilling with her so i smoked with my friend who lives 3 hrs away and was leaving soon. So she ended up calling and wanted to chill. When we did i felt a little akward being that i was high which caused me to over analyze everything. She was giving me hints but i was thinking WAAY too much. She told me she was losing interest then said that i lost my chance. But luckily i was coming down and said the hell with it and made my move. We made out for a while but then she had to leave. It took me 2 hrs to make a move. When i look back on it i dont know if i still have a chance with her or what. Did i f*ck it all up or what?
People remember the last thing not the first thing. It finished with you making out, that is her greatest memory, so that is where you finished at. All you thoughts should now be from that point on, don't keep rewinding to the beginning of the song if you hope to get to the next one.
 

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I talked to her earlier and she said the she thinks shes too innocent for me cause shes a virgin and doesnt drink. She said that had fun when we hung out but i dunno. Shes acting all weird. I told her we should chill today and she said possibly, but its not gonna happen.
 
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