"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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may have messed up big time!??

rich_uk

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my halloween party went great last night, although i got hammered so i dont remember much. but i have been told that i kissed LOTS of different girls so thats good BUT the girl who i have been kinda seeing and i do really like was there and saw it happen and she is not too happy about it.

what should i do? act like i dont remember at all (which is the truth)??
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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rich_uk

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ok i spoke to her today, seems i need not have worried because shes decided she just wants us to be friends... goddammit!

she said that if we got together it would ruin out friendship then she got pissed because i didnt talk to her that much after she told me. i mean come on, im not going to become her emotional tampon and waste my time with her if she doesnt want anything.
 

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Oh, boohoo for her. What a damn shame. God I hate girls. They LJBF you and expect you to still be their puppy on a leash.

On another note, aren't you a bit young to be getting drunk like that? Getting drunk=acting stupid=Fall from Don Juan grace. Just my opinion. If you don't agree, don't bother arguing, because I just don't care.
 

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i didnt intend to get as drunk as i did, one of my friends kept buying me drinks even once i was already drunk and i wouldnt refuse. o well, its done now. everyone will forget it soon enough.

as for the girl, i cant be bothered with that crap, if she doesnt want more than friends then its her loss.
 

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Then why are you even talking about it?

You're following principal... good luck with that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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