You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nevermind, apparently you thought ahead to the consequences of telling children they act like 12 year olds.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
rgeere you sound like a reasonable guy.Use the search feature for my name toOriginally posted by Heaven's Gate
LOL...of course I did and it is sooooooooooo predictable.
I'm sure I will, as soon as I go get a girl who isn't in complete denial about me....
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'll have to charge you for that....Originally posted by WaterTiger
Don't worry rgeere, I'll aways think of you as a wicked, wicked young man in desperate need of a spanking.
Originally posted by Heaven's Gate
WOW... it is amazing. I have read a few posts in this forum, and there are some nice intelligent guys out there, but for the most part most of you have the emotional develpement of a 12 year old and even less manners.
I get the strange feeling your talking about myself and rgeere