"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mature men with little or no experience with women, do you make some up?

davewe

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Zarky said:
Lie yo' a$$ off.

Like somebody said "fake it till you make it." Even though I date multiple women I make up fake girls' facebook profiles etc and have them friend me and post flirty stuff on my wall. I did that just the other day with this hot new fake blonde and the next day one of the girls I'm dating made me a cake. With icing and everything. It's not even my birthday.

When I was on Myspace back in '06 or whenever, fully half of my female "friends" were fake. And gorgeous.
I know everyone says dont do the Facebook thing. But lately I have been adding every girl that I meet onto Facebook. You would not belive the interest I am getting because girls see these other girls.

So whether you make them up or just adding casual hot friends, do this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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scrouds said:
A wise man told me once that a mid life crisis is only for guys that gave up their fun and their sports car in the first place. That's the str8up word right there.
word.
 

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i have plenty of experience but its not something i ever discussed with the woman that is now my wife

she can tell everything she needs to know simply by being with you and observing you

if you feel the need to have sexual history discussions with women that in and of itself seems like a problem to me
 

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Mature men with little or no experience with women, do you make some up? Reply to Th

Mostly says that practice make a man perfect but a man learn thought to own age and experience then he calls experts in all fields.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I try not to lie, but at least exaggerate now if necessary. Here is why:

2 years ago I briefly dated someone. Everything was going very well with her and I could have had s3x with her on the second date, after she invited me in at her place after going out for drinks.

Then she asked me how many relationships I'd been in. Truth be told I had just broken up with someone that lasted a few months and that was it....but I kinda froze at the question then said I'd never been in a relationship before and she had this very surprising look on her face....it all went downhill from there and I never went out with her again.

If I'd said I'd been in a few that lasted a few years that wouldn't have happened and likely never discussed again.
 

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I was in a similar place a year ago, I told the truth and it bit me in the ass. My advice is that unless she is really, really into you lying is the better option.
 

pdx1138

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Even if she's into you, you have to fib a little.

The girl I was with was great and into me, but me saying I had no relationship experience killed it for her regardless.

she didn't want a "project" ;)
 
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