"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mature Men Unite!

ER!C L!VE

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Let's take back this forum by placing the women who post here on ignore. This is a forum for older men in who need dating advice. The best people to give dating advice are the older guys who are actively dating.

So, to remedy the influx of female posts, I've created an easy way for all Mature Man forum members to ignore the female posters.

Simply click the following links and you will no longer be subjected to female dating advice.


Iggy penkitten

To ignore iqqi

To ignore Wyldfire

:cheer:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SAYNO

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What about

Avon? If he aint a women he sure acts like one!


Sayno'
 

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Let's take back this forum by placing the women who post here on ignore. This is a forum for older men in who need dating advice. The best people to give dating advice are the older guys who are actively dating.

So, to remedy the influx of female posts, I've created an easy way for all Mature Man forum members to ignore the female posters.

Simply click the following links and you will no longer be subjected to female dating advice.


Iggy penkitten

To ignore iqqi

To ignore Wyldfire

:cheer:
Props.

Done & done.
 

Wyldfire

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You trolls really need to be banned. All you ever do is whine, cry and act like little biotches. This site isn't about teaching guys how to be cry babies and victims. And if some of the guys here can't handle a few women on this forum then they obviously can't deal with them in real life either. In fact, that's probably why they spend so much time on here whining and crying in the first place...because they sure as hell aren't out getting laid. :crackup:

By all means...put me on ignore. Then maybe you'll quit disrupting the place with your crying about me in virtually every post you make.

Boo freaking hoo...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Desdinova
I'm really trying to figure out why this thread is in the Mature Man forum.
:crackup: :crackup: :D :crackup: :crackup:
 

ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by Desdinova
I'm really trying to figure out why this thread is in the Mature Man forum.

lol The Mature Man is just a euphemism that the brains at sosuave.com decided to call this forum to describe older guys. Older men encounter different dating situations than the kiddies on the main sosuave forum.

haha... Can you imagine this being called, 'The Old Man Forum' ?That wouldn't go over so well now would it?

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Truthfully, I find some f the posts by the women more "mature" than posts by some of supposedly "mature" men here. *cough**sayno**cough**:D
 

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Same here just added Wyldfire , avon and good-ol-boy!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by SAYNO
Same here just added Wyldfire , avon and good-ol-boy!
Good...maybe you'll stop talking about me constantly...although I highly doubt it.

You're like the dorky 3rd grader who keeps tugging on the pretty girl's piggy tails to get her attention because you don't know what else to do.

I'm not interested...
 

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Let's take back this forum by placing the women who post here on ignore. This is a forum for older men in who need dating advice. The best people to give dating advice are the older guys who are actively dating.

So, to remedy the influx of female posts, I've created an easy way for all Mature Man forum members to ignore the female posters.

Simply click the following links and you will no longer be subjected to female dating advice.

:cheer:
shyt like this always comes around

dude, you still belong on the youngster's forum

it's the equivalent of shouting "girl germs! girl germs!" on the playground

no shyt

most women of the kind that you speak of a) don't come here and b) are quickly chased away. the ones listed here are a different breed

I see cr@p like the above and all I get is some dude who has low reading comprehension skills who make blanket judgements based on race/gender/appearances and not on the merits of what is actually said

sure, I don't agree with some of what I read from them (some tends to be "nice" and "supportive" at times when I think someone needs a head slap for their own good, but whatever - I'm not always spot-on myself...) -- but they hit the boards better than half the recently-verbally-skilled types :rolleyes: that grace us here.
 

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Re: Re: Mature Men Unite!

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
shyt like this always comes around

dude, you still belong on the youngster's forum

it's the equivalent of shouting "girl germs! girl germs!" on the playground

no shyt

most women of the kind that you speak of a) don't come here and b) are quickly chased away. the ones listed here are a different breed

I see cr@p like the above and all I get is some dude who has low reading comprehension skills who make blanket judgements based on race/gender/appearances and not on the merits of what is actually said

sure, I don't agree with some of what I read from them (some tends to be "nice" and "supportive" at times when I think someone needs a head slap for their own good, but whatever - I'm not always spot-on myself...) -- but they hit the boards better than half the recently-verbally-skilled types :rolleyes: that grace us here.
Hey, you don't have to ignore them. You can take all the advice you want from them. However, I choose not to.

I can guarantee you that I have dated and slept with more women than the girls on this site have. I'd prefer to take advice from someone who has been there and done that.

:cheer:
 

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Personally, I think all women should be banned from the DJ Forum period, but there's no way to tell if anyone here is masquerading as something that they aren't. Just my 2 cents.
 

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Originally posted by josekortez
Personally, I think all women should be banned from the DJ Forum period, but there's no way to tell if anyone here is masquerading as something that they aren't. Just my 2 cents.
Exactly, i agree with you, I don't think they should be allowed to post here at all. The advice that a women can give seems to be changing and ever allusive....

That why I believe the bible had at least one thing right when it said for a women to remain in silence and humble submission.

I would like to talk futher about some of the teaching by people like nitchze and david quin, when they spoke about the nature of "truth".

Women aren't interested in real "truths" and this is what seprates man from women....

But i will save that for another post and another time.


Sayno'
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Eric,

How do you add more users to ignore?

I love this feature already.
 

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BTW, Eric, thanks for this thread :cheer:
 

ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by iveyleeger

How do you add more users to ignore?
You click on the view the individual's profile link and on the their profile screen, there is a link on the lower right portion of the profile screen that says "Place [that person] on your ignore list". Click that link and you'll not need to read that person's posts again.:cheer:
 

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Some of what Wyldfire has said is quite valid.

Especially against a user named 'tj' - that kinda person you gotta ignore, tj once said that homosexuality is prone in males who have larger penises and he got pissed off because he has a 3 inch tool.

Remember his name is 'tj' on this very website. and he has a small wang.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
tj once said that homosexuality is prone in males who have larger penises and he got pissed off because he has a 3 inch tool.

Remember his name is 'tj' on this very website. and he has a small wang.
Ok, so let's not revert to the ad hominem attacks, M'kay? :cheer:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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