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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Mature 18 y.o. girl with not-so-mature 28 y.o. guy?

Fela Kuti

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Hello,

Probably there's many thread already about 18 and 28 y.o. relationships but I haven't found one that touches this subject: what if the girl (the younger one) is mature for her age and the guy is less mature than the average guys of his age? Well I'm actually that kinda guy and I enjoy interaction with girls younger than me (5+ gap) more than with older girls. and my type of girl has to have this childlike mannerism in her.

Now just in case I meet a mature 18 y.o. someday do you think it's worth taking a shot at her? Not that I'm looking for girls with that age, this is just a "hypothetical" question.

Thanks a lot.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SmooveMooves

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Why do I get the feeling this isn't so "hypothetical."

Lmao

Nevertheless, do as Skinnyguy says.

The age gap is just far to great, you'll face tons of problems as a result that will be tough to overcome.

Learn to like females closer to your age.

I'm sure you can find some childish 26 yr olds.

Or you could grow up.
 

Fela Kuti

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lol ok, actually I met this interesting 18 yo and it makes me wonder. Nice input there..
 

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Ive seen a few of these relationships work. Usually a highly dominant older male and a more mature female. The issue however is public acceptance, also why is she seeking older guys? In many ways the age difference is negligble but eventually something is gonna crop up. Compare yourself at 18 to now, youre not the same person. If you can make it work though..god bless ya. I once had similar desires for a relationship with someone 10 yr younger..but shes batsh!t glad it wouldnt work now.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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