"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mature 18 y.o. girl with not-so-mature 28 y.o. guy?

Fela Kuti

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Hello,

Probably there's many thread already about 18 and 28 y.o. relationships but I haven't found one that touches this subject: what if the girl (the younger one) is mature for her age and the guy is less mature than the average guys of his age? Well I'm actually that kinda guy and I enjoy interaction with girls younger than me (5+ gap) more than with older girls. and my type of girl has to have this childlike mannerism in her.

Now just in case I meet a mature 18 y.o. someday do you think it's worth taking a shot at her? Not that I'm looking for girls with that age, this is just a "hypothetical" question.

Thanks a lot.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SmooveMooves

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Why do I get the feeling this isn't so "hypothetical."

Lmao

Nevertheless, do as Skinnyguy says.

The age gap is just far to great, you'll face tons of problems as a result that will be tough to overcome.

Learn to like females closer to your age.

I'm sure you can find some childish 26 yr olds.

Or you could grow up.
 

Fela Kuti

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lol ok, actually I met this interesting 18 yo and it makes me wonder. Nice input there..
 

christoff522

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Ive seen a few of these relationships work. Usually a highly dominant older male and a more mature female. The issue however is public acceptance, also why is she seeking older guys? In many ways the age difference is negligble but eventually something is gonna crop up. Compare yourself at 18 to now, youre not the same person. If you can make it work though..god bless ya. I once had similar desires for a relationship with someone 10 yr younger..but shes batsh!t glad it wouldnt work now.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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