"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Math touring for DJ lessons.

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Well this is the situation, this really smart dude at my university want to trade math lessons for "help me get girls". He is awsome at math were I am less than good at it. I really need his help for next semester keeping a 4.00 is cruicial for my life goals.. anway... he seen me work a room couple times and just started asking questions and I started to tell him about the differncnes about guys and girls, how guys are brain washed to act like pvssies.. well it turns out he is a total AFC hasnt even kissed a girl yet. Anyway I wanna help him but dont know where to start....

Im thinking of designing a lesson plan for him like a 4 week course where I can guide him on the art of the approch.. week one inner game (how to dress and act, and think). week 2 (approching) week3 (dates) week4 (closing the deal).

dose any one have any experince with tring to help some one and that person actually sucseeding because of your help.... I realy would like to help him, he is very cool dude, and because of him I have been able stay on top my math class... Anyway feed back and tips would be good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Everyone I have tried to help thinks I'm nuts and that "it will never work",but oh wait....it does!
 
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I don't lknow kid - the young generation has been so brainwashed on the weak male = good instruction - expecially in the last 20 years -- it is not going to be an easy task!!! For the first lesson you should take him to a group of males who do not interact with women and then take him around dudes that do interact with women and let him tell you the difference -- ask him which group describes him best -- it'll be a process if self-discovery - the best way to learn!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cyp6 said:
Well this is the situation, this really smart dude at my university want to trade math lessons for "help me get girls". He is awsome at math were I am less than good at it. I really need his help for next semester keeping a 4.00 is cruicial for my life goals.. anway... he seen me work a room couple times and just started asking questions and I started to tell him about the differncnes about guys and girls, how guys are brain washed to act like pvssies.. well it turns out he is a total AFC hasnt even kissed a girl yet. Anyway I wanna help him but dont know where to start....

Im thinking of designing a lesson plan for him like a 4 week course where I can guide him on the art of the approch.. week one inner game (how to dress and act, and think). week 2 (approching) week3 (dates) week4 (closing the deal).

dose any one have any experince with tring to help some one and that person actually sucseeding because of your help.... I realy would like to help him, he is very cool dude, and because of him I have been able stay on top my math class... Anyway feed back and tips would be good.

Hey bro admit that u need help not some nerd in your math class. I was going to respond to this thread but u need to edit the thread and pertain it to be you.

There is nothing wrong with needing help dude. edit the thread and I will give u some good advice.
 
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If you do it properly and on various occasions he';ll see the light!!!
You can't just tell the truth to people to wake them up and get them out of The Matrix -- they'll "vomit" in disbelief like Neo did!!! Too much of a shock for adults to handle!!!!
 

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Nasman said:
Hey bro admit that u need help not some nerd in your math class. I was going to respond to this thread but u need to edit the thread and pertain it to be you.

There is nothing wrong with needing help dude. edit the thread and I will give u some good advice.
i dont need help with women bro. that part of my life was handled about year and a half ago.. am i still learning? yes, am I good with women? yes? Do I have a gf? yes. Do I think you are knowledgable with women and could help me and others in the community? yes, but I think you would rather put people down, but its cool, to each his own.. thank you responding though.
 

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If you do it properly and on various occasions he';ll see the light!!!
You can't just tell the truth to people to wake them up and get them out of The Matrix -- they'll "vomit" in disbelief like Neo did!!! Too much of a shock for adults to handle!!!!
yes i agree, i like the two differnt typs of guys example.. i think rather than telling i will have to show most of the time... but how to do that will be trickey...
 
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It is easy -- again The Matrix reference -- Morpheus show Neo The Matrix simulator program and then asked Neo to test what he has learned and tested his faith in knowing the truth by bringing up the Jump-off-the-building-and-slam you-face-to-the-sidewalk program!! Of course he failed but everyone does the first time (Cypher said so) So you must do with Mr. Math wizaed!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Get him a hooker to boost his confidence , to take his lip virginity, and to take his penis virginity!! Im pretty sure he'll offer you tutor lessons for the rest of your life and prolly even do the homework for you.
 
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