"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Math Class Tonight

Dukester

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Well, class w/ my "study budy" chick went well tonight. Actually, we didnt really talk to much, and at break, I went out and talked with my friends rather than stay there w/ her.

When I came back, she talked to me a little bit, but didnt seem too interested in talking to her- yet I showed I was still into her. (i know it kinda contradicts itself)

ne way, we got outta class early, and i ditched my friends, and walked w/ her to her car. she told me how her weekend went, blah, blah, blah.

i made a statement/question that she had told me last week, "You're gonna be at Miami U. this weekend arent you?"

she said that she didnt know if she was going now, and she would call me for sure. (since i tried to make plans w/ her this past weekend, and it didnt work). I told her that I might be busy, since she told me that she was. I said that we'd work something out in class Thursday.

She said ok, w/ a smile, and we said goodnight, and I walked back to my car.

I think it went well, and I'm sure I'll get a date w/ her sometime, this weekend!

Is there something that i messed up on, or couldve done better?
if you need to, read my earlier posts a/b this chick
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dee-Zy

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You won't really know until you get to the date anyways...


You'll know for sure if you don't get there though.
:D


GHOST
 

DJUofS

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Sounds like she is trying to nicely reject you. Why don't you try this - Test her. Tell her to call you this weekend like she had said she would. If she does, she's into you. If not, well you know the rest. Sounds to me like she isn't going to call.

Don't worry bro, i've met many girls like this. They aren't worth it. That is, if she is this kind of girl. Otherwise, good luck to you.
 

Dee-Zy

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I also had a bad gut feeling about this girl through duke's description, but to tell her to call won't guage much as most girls don't call anyways - interested or not.
 
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