"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok... before i grilled... i will set things staight...

NO.. i have not done anything
NO.. i dont want to do anything
NO.. i will not do anything

So... after reading numerous amounts of posts regarding.. EC, kino, etc etc etc... i have yet to draw conclusions on the following.

I am very interested on what you guys think about your "friends girlfriends"...

I live with my best mate and his girl. Have done for a while now.

My query is... "When do you dismiss EC, Kino, IL, buying signals etc... from being flirtacious and I wanna jump your bones..... to, just being friendly vibes"?

If this was a girl i met in a club or somewhere, i would be all over these signals like a rash..

Surely there is a fine line between the to.. but where is the line drawn?

Obviously we (me & her) have become great friends because it is my mates girlfriend... but she is giving signals that she wants to get busy... to an extent...

I am trying to dismiss it as "friendly" but it just doesnt cut it.

I know she loves my mate to death, they are very serious, want to buy a house, talking about marriage etc... plus.. adding that i would never contemplate anything in regards to her. I am not "attracted" to her to a certain degree.. not dismissing that if s was single in a different life i would fu*k her.. cos i would (i have je*k-off thinking about her). but in this situation not in a million years.

So yeah.... what you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How about ... asking her?

(Why did you need to tell us that you jerk off thinking of her?)
 
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Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
(Why did you need to tell us that you jerk off thinking of her?)
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i was thinking the exact same thing..


next time u are jerking off over her, get some of her panties (dirty is best) blow in them, and put it back in her draw.
then she'll see that you're ment to be together..


in all seriousness, good job that u have no intention of hitting it..
ur mate has been kind enough to let u live with him, weather he's AFC or whatever, there is no reason to hit his missus.

ur a good guy.

p.s. blow in her panties
 
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What I was meaning to say is that since you have decided you are not going to pursue her and you are pretty sure she is hitting on you; why not just talk openly with her about it? What do you have to lose, other than her to stop hitting on you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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