"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dockta

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ok... before i grilled... i will set things staight...

NO.. i have not done anything
NO.. i dont want to do anything
NO.. i will not do anything

So... after reading numerous amounts of posts regarding.. EC, kino, etc etc etc... i have yet to draw conclusions on the following.

I am very interested on what you guys think about your "friends girlfriends"...

I live with my best mate and his girl. Have done for a while now.

My query is... "When do you dismiss EC, Kino, IL, buying signals etc... from being flirtacious and I wanna jump your bones..... to, just being friendly vibes"?

If this was a girl i met in a club or somewhere, i would be all over these signals like a rash..

Surely there is a fine line between the to.. but where is the line drawn?

Obviously we (me & her) have become great friends because it is my mates girlfriend... but she is giving signals that she wants to get busy... to an extent...

I am trying to dismiss it as "friendly" but it just doesnt cut it.

I know she loves my mate to death, they are very serious, want to buy a house, talking about marriage etc... plus.. adding that i would never contemplate anything in regards to her. I am not "attracted" to her to a certain degree.. not dismissing that if s was single in a different life i would fu*k her.. cos i would (i have je*k-off thinking about her). but in this situation not in a million years.

So yeah.... what you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dapper Swindler

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How about ... asking her?

(Why did you need to tell us that you jerk off thinking of her?)
 

quest

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Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
(Why did you need to tell us that you jerk off thinking of her?)
i was thinking the exact same thing..


next time u are jerking off over her, get some of her panties (dirty is best) blow in them, and put it back in her draw.
then she'll see that you're ment to be together..


in all seriousness, good job that u have no intention of hitting it..
ur mate has been kind enough to let u live with him, weather he's AFC or whatever, there is no reason to hit his missus.

ur a good guy.

p.s. blow in her panties
 

Dapper Swindler

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What I was meaning to say is that since you have decided you are not going to pursue her and you are pretty sure she is hitting on you; why not just talk openly with her about it? What do you have to lose, other than her to stop hitting on you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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