"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DanishDJ

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I have a date coming up, with an extremely hot girl I meet on the Internet. The thing is she is working as a store manager in a cosmetics shop, and I suspect she might be exactly the archetype of materialistic women.

So I expect to be highly disadvantaged by still beeing in college (last year though), pretty much being broke, living in a dorm room and so on.

Any good ideas how to pull her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You could be wrong y'know...
 
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Money isent green in my country, so that question isent really working, but thanks.

I guess I will just try to establish that I have a good prospects after graduating, which is soon, and otherwise not worrying about this and have fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by DanishDJ
I guess I will just try to establish that I have a good prospects after graduating, which is soon, and otherwise not worrying about this and have fun.
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I don't think that's a good idea. While yes, your prospects are important and will probably be something that women will look at when deciding whether you're worthwhile, I don't think you should lead with it (ie - on an early date). Get to know HER, and get her to know YOU, not what your financial possibilities are.

Alexi
 
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i'm a broke ass student currently dating a well established 32 year old. financial status is not a problem UNLESS YOU MAKE IT TO BE!!
 
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I dated a cosmetics girl once.

After that experience I can honestly say that I love them. They are total girly girls and very feminine.

For me, it is easy to understand a woman who is a girly girl. They act on their emotions more and are more predictable in a female way.

This is a good thing don't worry about it.
 
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Originally posted by thefonz
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sorry, I'm a little retarded today. what do you want me to elaborate?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
I dated a cosmetics girl once.

After that experience I can honestly say that I love them. They are total girly girls and very feminine.

For me, it is easy to understand a woman who is a girly girl. They act on their emotions more and are more predictable in a female way.

This is a good thing don't worry about it.
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I agree. (Dated a hairdresser . . .)
 
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