"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have a date coming up, with an extremely hot girl I meet on the Internet. The thing is she is working as a store manager in a cosmetics shop, and I suspect she might be exactly the archetype of materialistic women.

So I expect to be highly disadvantaged by still beeing in college (last year though), pretty much being broke, living in a dorm room and so on.

Any good ideas how to pull her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You could be wrong y'know...
 
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Money isent green in my country, so that question isent really working, but thanks.

I guess I will just try to establish that I have a good prospects after graduating, which is soon, and otherwise not worrying about this and have fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DanishDJ
I guess I will just try to establish that I have a good prospects after graduating, which is soon, and otherwise not worrying about this and have fun.
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I don't think that's a good idea. While yes, your prospects are important and will probably be something that women will look at when deciding whether you're worthwhile, I don't think you should lead with it (ie - on an early date). Get to know HER, and get her to know YOU, not what your financial possibilities are.

Alexi
 
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i'm a broke ass student currently dating a well established 32 year old. financial status is not a problem UNLESS YOU MAKE IT TO BE!!
 
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I dated a cosmetics girl once.

After that experience I can honestly say that I love them. They are total girly girls and very feminine.

For me, it is easy to understand a woman who is a girly girl. They act on their emotions more and are more predictable in a female way.

This is a good thing don't worry about it.
 
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Originally posted by thefonz
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sorry, I'm a little retarded today. what do you want me to elaborate?

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
I dated a cosmetics girl once.

After that experience I can honestly say that I love them. They are total girly girls and very feminine.

For me, it is easy to understand a woman who is a girly girl. They act on their emotions more and are more predictable in a female way.

This is a good thing don't worry about it.
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I agree. (Dated a hairdresser . . .)
 
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