"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Masturbation

EvilAgenda

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So do you agree with the theory that abstaining from jacking off increases your testosterone level?
Where did you hear that? It doesn't increase it, it prevents it from being released, which in turn makes you angry.

Regular boners and having sex/masturbating is good and healthy and increases your testosterone production.

If you are getting laid, then cut down on masturbation.
If you are NOT getting laid, then masturbate.
If finding motivation and energy is a problem for you, then join a gym and start to work out regularly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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daledavis

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I know my "eye contact" suffers when I beat it. Being able to look someone in the eye to me is important in communication. Therefore, my "game" takes a hit.
 

The Experience

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Do what you want, but in moderation, always. I believe its normal and whether it affects you positively or negatively is based on how you feel its going to affect you.
Laziness = masturbation but masturbation doesn't have to = laziness.
Keep exercising regularly, eat well and keep masturbation to a relative minimum (as the real thing is better).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EvilAgenda said:
Where did you hear that? It doesn't increase it, it prevents it from being released, which in turn makes you angry.

Regular boners and having sex/masturbating is good and healthy and increases your testosterone production.

If you are getting laid, then cut down on masturbation.
If you are NOT getting laid, then masturbate.
If finding motivation and energy is a problem for you, then join a gym and start to work out regularly.

I couldn't agree more than with this guy... the point is you should just take action in life, like if your annoyed with someone tell them, if you want to get with a girl you should speak with her, if you want a dream job, then you should build a plan and apply.

It's that kind of thing right, to go with whats right for you.

Rather than out of gluttony.
 
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