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Masturbation, Yay or Nay?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Poonani Maker
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Here's what I think, Tekniq. If you're about to go out or go to a party (like I am tomorrow), then don't masturbate. If you've lived out your week without masturbating and you don't get sex from some chick during said week, then by all means letter rip. The main thing is patterns. If you're getting yourself into "habits" or patterns that exclude women, then you're setting yourself up for an entire lifetime without women. You can masturbate, just mix it up i.e. don't fall into the trap of routine mbing. Make your masturbation irregular and a Decision YOU make to do, not something that controls you. YOU control it.
I will not masturbate if I know that I am going to be around a lot of women today or the next day or the day after. If it's gonna be a week from now, I'll take my chances of having ramped-up desire by the time of my encounter with a bunch of women.
You want Big Ballz when in the presence of women. Mbing will crush your innards thus making the woman sense that you are not worthy of her company. She needs a mate, not a dildo.
I will not masturbate if I know that I am going to be around a lot of women today or the next day or the day after. If it's gonna be a week from now, I'll take my chances of having ramped-up desire by the time of my encounter with a bunch of women.
You want Big Ballz when in the presence of women. Mbing will crush your innards thus making the woman sense that you are not worthy of her company. She needs a mate, not a dildo.
From my personal experience it's doesn't decrease testosterone or anything. I can masturbate before I go out and still approach chicks and get a lot of success. So yeah, from my experience masturbating really doesn't affect your game that much. It might if you do it too many times a day though. I mostly find myself masturbating on days where I just don't know any parties to go out to or anything.
PumpingIron13
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Yea but every time you jack off your instantly over girls like right after you do it cuz that need has been satisfied. And then later that day, if you jack off again then that is twice in one day, if you were even to try and bang after that you'll be shooting dust for sure.
One time I was in my dorm waiting for a chick to come over and i wanned to bang her hard to make up for a bad case of whiskey **** i had last time she came over. My plan was to jack off an hour before she came over so that when she arrived id get hard and last long...did my plan work?
No. I did not get hard again. And this time it wasn't from binge drinking but from jacking off. This girl was boring and that didn't really help much but regardless...I always get boners from just cuddling with chicks and here I was naked with one and unable to get hard? where did my urge to bang go? In some crumpled up tissue in a trash can?
Ive gone without jacking off for a few days at a time and had success literally every night I hadnt thrown a beat and had contact with women... I agree with the first reply..
-If your a guy who is around chicks often you should not need to jack off. If you hang out with attractive chicks and they like you, you should be getting laid or in the process. If you go a long time then its cool, let her rip...but even then dont do it to porn...do it in the shower thinking of the girl u wanna slay.
-If your not the guy who is constantly around chicks, than stop wanking it immediately and get on that.
It is hard to resist sometimes for me too, porn is super fun and especially if your into certain **** like Asians (thats mine) and dont get much action from that category. Ive jacked off alot this summer cuz i havent been at college and what not but as soon as i move back i plan on quitting for almost a year. With a prime location, equally suave roomates, and a constant flow of parties i dont think Ill need to worry about jackin it
-If your
One time I was in my dorm waiting for a chick to come over and i wanned to bang her hard to make up for a bad case of whiskey **** i had last time she came over. My plan was to jack off an hour before she came over so that when she arrived id get hard and last long...did my plan work?
No. I did not get hard again. And this time it wasn't from binge drinking but from jacking off. This girl was boring and that didn't really help much but regardless...I always get boners from just cuddling with chicks and here I was naked with one and unable to get hard? where did my urge to bang go? In some crumpled up tissue in a trash can?
Ive gone without jacking off for a few days at a time and had success literally every night I hadnt thrown a beat and had contact with women... I agree with the first reply..
-If your a guy who is around chicks often you should not need to jack off. If you hang out with attractive chicks and they like you, you should be getting laid or in the process. If you go a long time then its cool, let her rip...but even then dont do it to porn...do it in the shower thinking of the girl u wanna slay.
-If your not the guy who is constantly around chicks, than stop wanking it immediately and get on that.
It is hard to resist sometimes for me too, porn is super fun and especially if your into certain **** like Asians (thats mine) and dont get much action from that category. Ive jacked off alot this summer cuz i havent been at college and what not but as soon as i move back i plan on quitting for almost a year. With a prime location, equally suave roomates, and a constant flow of parties i dont think Ill need to worry about jackin it
-If your
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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It's a good thing you masturbate because that is the only action you're getting all night.ElStud said:
And can you define success for me?
Bible_Belt
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Royce said:
But getting laid would do the same thing, right?
I say 'nay' to wanking, with the only exception being if doing so keeps you from doing something stupid or doing somebody who is otherwise very undesirable. Kat Williams said that before he takes another nappy ho home from the club, he is going to go into the bathroom and whack off first, because after he does that, it hardly ever still seems like a good idea.
Other than that, I think it hurts a guy with girls. They certainly don't respect it. But women do respect needing to get off and not being one of those guys who does it by himself.
On the flip side, masturbation among women should be encouraged to the fullest extent. It just makes them hornier. It's also good if your girl can reach down and get herself off with her hand in positions that don't normally make her orgasm.
No offense but who the **** cares? 
People put too much emphasis on that stuff.
Sometimes its better to wack off than getting a crappy lay from a girl with IQ in the double digits. Maybe I'm getting old but the whole ONS doesn't really seem that exciting anymore and ****ing a friend may not always be the wisest choice.
Whenever you feel a little lonely you will always have your right hand and that nice wonderful porn where a girl ****s diarrhea in the mouth of the other girl who swallow it.
People put too much emphasis on that stuff. Sometimes its better to wack off than getting a crappy lay from a girl with IQ in the double digits. Maybe I'm getting old but the whole ONS doesn't really seem that exciting anymore and ****ing a friend may not always be the wisest choice.
Whenever you feel a little lonely you will always have your right hand and that nice wonderful porn where a girl ****s diarrhea in the mouth of the other girl who swallow it.
usually if Im trying to pick up I MB that day before I go out if alcohol is involved so if I have a few too many and get all horned up Im not gonna let my d*ick do the talking and I can run solid game (which still works even when Im drunk btw) haha