"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Masturbation, Yay or Nay?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Poonani Maker
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I will not masturbate if I know that I am going to be around a lot of women today or the next day or the day after. If it's gonna be a week from now, I'll take my chances of having ramped-up desire by the time of my encounter with a bunch of women.
You want Big Ballz when in the presence of women. Mbing will crush your innards thus making the woman sense that you are not worthy of her company. She needs a mate, not a dildo.
PumpingIron13
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One time I was in my dorm waiting for a chick to come over and i wanned to bang her hard to make up for a bad case of whiskey **** i had last time she came over. My plan was to jack off an hour before she came over so that when she arrived id get hard and last long...did my plan work?
No. I did not get hard again. And this time it wasn't from binge drinking but from jacking off. This girl was boring and that didn't really help much but regardless...I always get boners from just cuddling with chicks and here I was naked with one and unable to get hard? where did my urge to bang go? In some crumpled up tissue in a trash can?
Ive gone without jacking off for a few days at a time and had success literally every night I hadnt thrown a beat and had contact with women... I agree with the first reply..
-If your a guy who is around chicks often you should not need to jack off. If you hang out with attractive chicks and they like you, you should be getting laid or in the process. If you go a long time then its cool, let her rip...but even then dont do it to porn...do it in the shower thinking of the girl u wanna slay.
-If your not the guy who is constantly around chicks, than stop wanking it immediately and get on that.
It is hard to resist sometimes for me too, porn is super fun and especially if your into certain **** like Asians (thats mine) and dont get much action from that category. Ive jacked off alot this summer cuz i havent been at college and what not but as soon as i move back i plan on quitting for almost a year. With a prime location, equally suave roomates, and a constant flow of parties i dont think Ill need to worry about jackin it
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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It's a good thing you masturbate because that is the only action you're getting all night.ElStud said:
And can you define success for me?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Royce said:
But getting laid would do the same thing, right?
I say 'nay' to wanking, with the only exception being if doing so keeps you from doing something stupid or doing somebody who is otherwise very undesirable. Kat Williams said that before he takes another nappy ho home from the club, he is going to go into the bathroom and whack off first, because after he does that, it hardly ever still seems like a good idea.
Other than that, I think it hurts a guy with girls. They certainly don't respect it. But women do respect needing to get off and not being one of those guys who does it by himself.
On the flip side, masturbation among women should be encouraged to the fullest extent. It just makes them hornier. It's also good if your girl can reach down and get herself off with her hand in positions that don't normally make her orgasm.
People put too much emphasis on that stuff. Sometimes its better to wack off than getting a crappy lay from a girl with IQ in the double digits. Maybe I'm getting old but the whole ONS doesn't really seem that exciting anymore and ****ing a friend may not always be the wisest choice.
Whenever you feel a little lonely you will always have your right hand and that nice wonderful porn where a girl ****s diarrhea in the mouth of the other girl who swallow it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.